In the soft moonlight, a couple of lovers sit on a park bench, the boy gently holds the girl's hand, and his eyes are full of anticipation and concern.
Honey, I have something to ask you. The boy hesitated for a moment, then plucked up the courage to say, "How many times have you been in love before?"”
The girl's breath stalled for a moment, and she glanced at the boy and saw that he was looking intently at her, and her heart began to beat faster. She knew that the question meant a lot to her because it revealed what the boy knew and trusted her.
The story begins here, taking us into the girl's past and uncovering those long-forgotten pasts.
The sweetness and bitterness of first love.
The girl recalled her first love, the age of seventeen or eighteen when she first tasted love, that time of youth and beauty. At that time, she was full of expectations and fantasies about love, but her first love was not as smooth as she imagined. Her first boyfriend was an introverted and sensitive person, and they often quarreled over small things. That relationship eventually ended with the boy's departure, leaving the girl with a painful memory.
The price of growth.
The girl becomes more mature and independent after a failed relationship. She began to understand that growing up was always accompanied by loss and pain. This experience taught her how to deal with relationship problems, how to deal with relationships, and how to become stronger.
Encounters and reunions.
At a class reunion, the girl meets someone who makes her heart flutter. They start a new relationship, and this time, she learns how to better express her emotions and how to understand each other's needs. However, this relationship did not come to an end!
She realized that everyone came to her life for no reason, in order to teach her a lesson, teach her to grow, care for others, and let her know what the most suitable person is like!
Be brave. Under her boyfriend's questioning, the girl finally mustered up the courage to confess her past to her boyfriend, telling her about the pain and changes in her growth process!also told her boyfriend that she wanted to thank those exes for letting her know that the person in front of her was the real person she was looking for, and the most suitable person for herself!After hearing this, her boyfriend did not blame her, but felt more sorry for her and cherished her more. He tells her that the past is in the past, and that what matters is the present and the future.
Okay, this is the story, so in the end, the girl said very tactfully that the current is her real son, but in reality, we don't want to be so stupid to explain everything, and tell it all!
If you do meet your boyfriend and ask you about your past love history, how would you answer?
Teach you a few tricks: 1 Ask him about his past first, secrets should be exchanged, 2 If there is one or two times, tell the truth. Don't just say you haven't talked about it, ghosts can't do it!If it's a lot of times, you have to say it twice, and it's capped twice.
3 Just take it lightly and avoid the important, and don't say it unforgettable!
4 The time should not be too long, at most half a year, a few months, not more than a year.
5 No matter how stubbornly your boyfriend is, don't tell the details.
6 The reason for breaking up is that the personalities are incompatible. Don't complain about your ex's shortcomings, it's the bottom line of good character.
7 Men are sensitive and jealous of their woman's past relationship, so he must not reveal too much information about his past relationship. Don't say if you don't ask, and if you ask, you will say it lightly. Don't think that you have to be honest with each other if you love each other, it is likely that your honesty will become a thunder buried by yourself, and it will explode from time to time.
The girls remembered!I can save you when it matters!