A woman who marries far away and wants to go back to her parents house for the New Year, her husban

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

Whenever the bell of the Chinese New Year is approaching, every family is immersed in the joy of reunion.

But for women, it seems to have become a luxury. She sat in front of the window, looking into the distance, with mixed feelings in her heart.

This year, she and her husband once again discussed the matter of returning to her parents' house for the New Year, hoping to bring the children and return to that familiar town happily as a family of three.

The woman was married here.

At the beginning, for the sake of love, she resolutely left her hometown where she had lived for many years and came to this strange city. At that time, airplanes, trains and other means of transportation were already quite developed, and she felt that going home was just a matter of words. However, the reality is far more cruel than imagined.

"It costs five or six thousand to go back to your mother's house, and it's good to leave this money for your children to pay tuition fees. ”

The husband's words were like a basin of cold water, ruthlessly extinguishing the hope in the woman's heart. She knew that her husband was not a stingy person, but he always seemed to be very careful when it came to returning to his parents' house.

The woman sighed, and the helplessness and grievances in her heart welled up in her heart. It's not that she doesn't understand her husband's concerns, but going back to her parents' home means a lot to her.

She wanted her parents to see their husbands and children and reassure them;She also misses those relatives and neighbors, and misses that town full of memories.

The woman knew that a trip back to her parents' home would indeed cost a lot of money, but for her, what was more important was the reunion and happiness of the family. She had fantasized countless times about how happy it would be if her husband could accompany her back to her parents' home

Reality is always cruel. The woman knew that her husband's concerns were not unfounded. Their small family is not wealthy, and every penny needs to be carefully calculated. Children's tuition, tuition fees, living expenses, ......These pressures forced the husband to think more practically.

But the woman still couldn't help but want to go back to her mother's home, she missed that home, and missed everyone and every corner there. So, she decided to tidy up her clothes and go back.

She knew that doing so might upset her husband, but she really couldn't bear the pain of this longing anymore.

The woman began to regret her choice, regretting that she had not followed her parents' advice to stay with them.

But it's too late to regret it. The woman knew she had to face the reality and try to get on with it. She hopes to make this small family live a better life through her own efforts;She also hopes to have the opportunity to go back to her parents' home more often to see her parents and relatives, so that they can rest assured that she is doing well.

In this regard, some netizens said:

Actually, it was the woman who wanted to, and the family should go back, so that his parents could rest assured of him. Every time many people go back to their parents' homes, although they spend a lot of money, the family is happy, and it doesn't matter if they have money or not. But marrying far away is indeed a big problem, many people will say that now the plane and train are convenient, even if they go home, it is just a matter of words, but the reality is that it is not easy to go home. Therefore, try not to marry far away, even if the traffic is developed now, the way home is still far away, in fact, for most women, the place where the battery car cannot reach is far away.

In this regard, some netizens said:

This kind of man is selfish, his wife is married to you, and he is not sold to your family, and he also lets his wife break off from his mother's family. Anyway, a woman who marries far away is better if she gets married with good conditions, but if the conditions are not good, it is really difficult to go back to her parents' home once, especially if the family has a poor economy.

Regarding the situation at the woman's home, some netizens gave advice to the woman:

Try not to marry far away, you can go back as much as you want before you have children, with children, the journey is far away, and it is really not easy to go back to your parents' home. Besides, if your sister-in-law and sister-in-law welcome you back, it's fine, but if you don't, why don't you go back and stay for one night?I think of my parents' reluctance every time I go back to part, and when I ask when you will come back, don't mention how sad I am. I have been married for more than ten years, and I often go back by myself, or bring my children back, and when my relatives and neighbors ask why your husband hasn't returned, how to deal with it?

In this regard, the author thinks:

I advise girls who are not yet married, don't easily choose to marry far away, once you lose, you really can't afford to lose!For women, the risk of marrying is too high.

However, the woman has already chosen this path and must go on bravely. She can only believe that as long as she has faith in her heart, she will be able to overcome all difficulties and meet a better future!

It is not only a person's character who gambles on distant marriage, but also his ability, some people have no ability, it seems that the bet is on the right person, and there is no money in the pocket, what can be done?It's still hard to get home.

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