"I really can't imagine that there are other girls around you, and every time I think of me, I feel extremely sad."
When you see this conversation, you may feel like a couple of lovers flirting, but if you knew that it was a chat between a female teacher and a 16-year-old student, would you believe it?
Shockingly, in Shanghai, a man reported on the Internet that his teacher's wife had an affair with a 16-year-old underage student, and posted their chat records and his wife's ** online, which sparked widespread social attention and discussion.
A female teacher in Shanghai was reported by her husband.
It must be admitted that the Spring Festival in 2024 is really very lively. When everyone was still concerned about whether many netizens from other places could return to their hometowns smoothly, a piece of news suddenly broke out in the education circle.
According to Internet rumors, this incident was revealed by the husband of the female teacher, and he reported his wife Zhang with his real name.
In his report, he made it clear that Zhang was not only a chemistry teacher, but also a class teacher. In terms of Zhang's personal experience, she performed quite well. She is a graduate of the School of Teacher Education of Nanjing Normal University and studied abroad at Chinese University of Hong Kong. Zhang came to work as a teacher after graduation, determined to sow the seeds of knowledge in the hearts of every student. After completing his studies, he became a teacher.
Judging from Mr. Zhang's appearance and temperament, he not only performed well in business, but also left a deep impression. She walks lightly, with a calm and graceful gesture, like a ballet dancer on stage, attracting the eyes of the surroundings. Her delicate face and well-proportioned figure, coupled with a pair of exquisite glasses, further accentuated her elegance and intelligence.
However, this seemingly flawless female teacher has taken an action that is incomprehensible, and even completely incompatible with her personal identity.
Judging from the public chat records, the conversation between the two can be said to be "extreme pull", and the content of the conversation has gradually changed from the initial implicit and subtle to a direct and straightforward topic, which is almost impossible to imagine that this is an exchange between teachers and students.
For example, when the two shared their respective relationship journeys, it was shocking that from the teacher's description, they learned the fact that the student was not her "first love", and as for the authenticity of the relationship, we do not know.
As for the latter part, it can be described as completely thoughtless, with many sensitive places and words revealed in his words, and judging by the words of the 16-year-old boy, the situation is quite complicated.
It must be admitted that although this student is still young, he is quite rich in "love field experience", and he is able to express his opinions fluently, both orally and in writing.
The discussion among netizens was extremely intense.
When this incident was s***ed, many netizens were confused and lost as to how a teacher with such an outstanding educational background could have fallen into such an inappropriate relationship.
Some netizens felt that the teacher's educational ethics were flawed and unsuitable for a career in education, while others believed that this man also had his own special features.
How a 16-year-old boy turned into a flirtatious expert is something we can learn from.
How is it possible for a female teacher to ** a male student?
Obviously, this is more of a banter and a joke. On the other hand, it is clear to everyone that there are differences in the identities and status of teachers and students. Teachers are primarily there to impart knowledge and answer doubts, while students, especially minors, are undoubtedly their main task in their studies.
As a result, some netizens began to ask questions.
If this is true, the relationship with the minor, whether consensual or not, should be held accountable.
From the current point of view, this view is actually inaccurate. This seems to have become a consensus, because in school, the love relationship between teachers and students is never a problem, and it can even be said that there is no education without love. For years, the public has been calling for China to explicitly prohibit teacher-student romantic relationships and ensure that there is no room for ambiguity or ambiguity in teacher-student relationships. However, there are those who disagree, believing that being in love is a legitimate interest of everyone.
Based on the transcripts of the conversations between the two sides, we are not sure for the time being whether there is a substantial connection, but two facts can be clear: first, the student has reached the age of 16; Secondly, the relationship between them is voluntary. In such a case, there is no legal reproach. Therefore, it can be regarded as a moral criticism at best, and does not constitute a violation of the law or a criminal act.
The next reply was that the Education Bureau had decided to suspend its educational activities.
Regarding this incident, a reporter has consulted the Education Bureau, and the Education Bureau responded that the teacher's teaching activities have been temporarily suspended.
There is no doubt that this matter is currently having far-reaching implications. We must investigate this matter in depth, and although there are no violations, the field of education has always maintained a positive image and should not be swayed by these negative images.
As a key area for nurturing the next generation, practitioners in the education industry should have stricter standards of ethics and conduct than the general profession.
Every word and every word of a teacher not only has an impact on his or her career, but is also closely linked to the healthy development of students and the positive trend of society.
Therefore, even in the absence of a law explicitly prohibiting teacher-student love, society and educational institutions should regulate the behavior of teachers through ethical norms and professional norms to ensure the purity of the educational environment and the interests of students are not violated.
If this incident is proven to be true, then strict punishment is necessary, because it is not only a punishment for individual behavior, but also a warning to the professional ethics of the entire education industry, emphasizing that teachers must follow a higher standard in their professional conduct.
We hope that this incident will inspire more education practitioners to think deeply and self-regulate, and work together to maintain a positive image and stable order of the education industry.