25 years ago, Jiang Kun bravely decided to adopt an adopted son despite his wife's opposition. However, 15 years have passed, and now we can't help but ask, why did this adopted son look for his biological parents?
Jiang Kun's wife, Li Jingmin, returned to Beijing and opened the door to surprise a little boy she had never seen before. As soon as Jiang Kun opened his mouth, he asked him to call Li Jingmin "mother", which made Li Jingmin startled. Jiang Kun is nearly fifty years old, and he still wants to be a father! At first, everyone thought it was his illegitimate child outside, but it wasn't. In fact, long before returning to China, Jiang Kun wanted to adopt a boy and had been vaccinated, but his wife did not agree. Jiang Kun decided to take care of the boy and even let him take his surname "Jiang He". Despite the opposition of his wife and daughter, Jiang Kun insisted on adopting Jiang He, buying a house for him and taking him to the Spring Festival Gala. But when Jiang He grew up, he began to look for his biological parents, which is puzzling. Why did Jiang Kun adopt this boy in the first place?
The story of Jiang Kun and Jiang He began in October 25 years ago. Back in 1988, Jiang Kun was the head of the China Radio Rap Troupe, and he and Feng Gong and other members of the troupe sent warmth to the local "welfare home" on behalf of the entire troupe.
The main content of "Send Warmth" is that everyone should choose an orphan in the welfare home and take it home to spend with them for 7 days, so that the child can feel the warmth of the family. Jiang Kun, who was the head of the regiment, was the first to stand up and chose a boy named "Xie Tan", who later became "Jiang He".
At that time, 6-year-old Xie Tan's thin body made Jiang Kun feel distressed. Xie Tan was abandoned by his biological parents not long after he was born, and was later adopted by a welfare institute and grew up there.
Jiang Kun took Xie Tan to his home in Beijing's Xicheng District, because his wife had gone abroad to accompany his daughter Jiang Shan to study, leaving him and his nanny at home. In the face of Xie Tan's pity, Jiang Kun showed the light of his father's love, bathed and cooked for Xie Tan personally, hoping to let the child truly feel the warmth of home through his own efforts. In the evening, he personally told Xie Tan a story.
Under Jiang Kun's care, Xie Tan's scared little eyes gradually disappeared, and he became very dependent on this "father". 7 days is long or short, enough to bring the hearts of the two people close.
Jiang Kun loved the little boy so much that even though he knew it was only a short-term event, he had to send the child back to the orphanage. However, when it was really time to send it away, it was reluctant to part!
When Xie Tan learned that he was about to separate from Jiang Kun, tears welled up in his eyes: "I don't want to leave, I really don't want to leave!" When Jiang Kun comforted, Xie Tan said with emotion: "Uncle, I really want to have a father, are you willing to be my father?" I really don't want to go back! Xie Tan's honesty moved Jiang Kun's heart, especially considering that his daughter is studying abroad all the year round, and the family often seems lonely, maybe with this child, life will be more fulfilling and happy.
So, Jiang Kun made up his mind to adopt the child, and began to call his wife Li Jingmin ** on the same day. Although Li Jingmin did not agree in **, Jiang Kun had already made up his mind and simply notified his wife.
Xie Tan, who was supposed to leave, did not leave, but stayed in this new family forever and received a new name - "Jiang He". Although he nominally has "Dad, Mom, and Sister", other family members don't like him except for Dad.
Having grown up in an orphanage, Jiang He is very good at observation. He senses that "Mom" doesn't like him very much, and he starts trying to please her. Whenever her mother was tired, the young Jiang He would take the initiative to beat her back and legs; Whenever his mother went out, he quickly handed over the scarf ......With Jiang He's unremitting efforts, Li Jingmin's attitude towards him has changed dramatically, and he has gradually learned to care about him. When Jiang He was sick, Li Jingmin accompanied him to sleep and took care of him.
Under Li Jingmin's persuasion, Jiang Shan gradually accepted this younger brother who suddenly appeared. However, Jiang Kun's favoritism towards her son often made Jiang Shan feel unfair. As a child, her love for ** made her look forward to using her father's prestige to carve out her own field. However, Jiang Kun resolutely opposed her study, and insisted on sending her abroad for further study.
Jiang Kun's care for Jiang He can be described as painstaking. At the beginning, in order to improve Jiang He's academic performance, he invited famous teachers to tutor him. However, the little Jiang He has no interest in his studies. Jiang He was not forced, Jiang Kun listened to the advice of his friend Niu Qun and sent Jiang He to an art school to learn acrobatics.
In 2000, he enrolled Jiang He at the Shenyang National Art School, where he was the artistic director. After making Jiang He's bed, he and his wife left. Due to his unease about his children, Jiang Kun often traveled back and forth, and went there in a few days. Perhaps it was Jiang Kun's excessive favor that Jiang He actually did something that surprised them.
That day, the two had just come home from visiting their children in Shenyang, but they didn't expect Jiang He to follow in not long after. The two were surprised, wondering how the kid had come back. It turned out that Jiang He was picking up the train and following the two all the way back. Jiang Kun was very angry, believing that such behavior was not only dangerous but also violated school rules. He sent his children back to school, and it was at this time that a thought came to his mind: "Since it is so troublesome to go back and forth, wouldn't it be better to buy a house?" ”
He acted as soon as he decided, and in 2001, he did not hesitate to buy a three-bedroom apartment in Shenyang. In this way, he can be reunited with his children at any time.
After Jiang He was advised, he began to study hard, and Jiang Kun was overjoyed. In 2004, he straightforwardly brought Jiang He to the acrobatic stage of the Beijing Spring Festival Gala.
At that time, Jiang He's living expenses had reached 1,500 yuan per month, and he often showed off his fame as Jiang Kun. In stark contrast, Jiang Shan, who is abroad, has always kept a low profile. She even recycles plastic bags and travels far to buy cheap vegetables.
It wasn't until he saw his sister's performance that Jiang He gradually got rid of the habit of showing off. With Jiang Kun's support, Jiang He appeared on many important stages and became famous with his acrobatic skills.
However, after spending 10 years with Jiang He, he suddenly decided to find his biological parents. Jiang Kun's illegitimate child rumors have existed since Jiang He's appearance, and the outside world generally believes that he is Jiang Kun's illegitimate son.
It wasn't until he was on the show later that Jiang Kun clarified this rumor. But the good times did not last long, in June 2007, when Jiang Kun and Jiang He came to the welfare home again, they saw that someone had found their biological parents, and Jiang He also expressed his determination to find his biological parents.
As soon as these words were spoken, Jiang Kun was in a complicated mood, and he wanted to say it but was speechless, so he could only leave silently.
Although ** was also reported, Jiang Kun actually decided to work together to help Jiang He find his biological parents after careful consideration. At that time, Jiang He said excitedly: "Don't worry, even if you find your biological parents, I will accompany you to old age!" At the end of 2007, he took Jiang He to embark on the road of recognizing his relatives together. Unfortunately, however, the DNA test results do not match.
Despite this blow, Jiang Kun did not give up helping Jiang He find the truth. The next year, the two tried to recognize their relatives again, but failed again. In the end, Jiang He suddenly realized that he had been ruthlessly abandoned by his biological parents, and Jiang Kun and his wife provided him with a second chance at life.
From that moment on, Jiang He no longer struggled to find his biological parents, and regarded Jiang Kun as his biological father. Subsequently, he achieved remarkable success in his career, became Jiang Kun's proud son, and established his own family. Every festival, he returns home and accompanies Jiang Kun and his wife to spend happy times.
Today, 73-year-old Jiang Kun is not only praised in his career, but also has a happy family, a harmonious relationship with his wife, and a complete set of children, becoming a winner in life! If it hadn't been for Jiang Kun's careful care, Jiang He might still be the thin boy in the orphanage. The existence of Jiang He makes Jiang Kun's life more exciting.
At the beginning, Jiang Kun was desperate to oppose the adoption of him, but fortunately, he finally understood Jiang Kun's hard work. As the saying goes, nurturing grace is greater than giving birth. For Jiang He, Jiang Kun is his biggest benefactor and his closest person!