Happy New Year!
The more I grew up, the more I found that those girls who looked ordinary, but exuded confidence and energy, were really charming.
From them, I see that the beautiful skin is not worth mentioning, and being a girl with connotation makes life more attractive!
In 2024, I will teach you a few tips to make yourself more generous and charming!
There is a sentence in the movie "Big Fish and Begonia","Our short life will eventually be lost, you might as well be bold, climb a mountain, love someone, and chase a dream. ”
Life is a one-way journey, be bold.
Don't be afraid! Do what you want to do and try everything possible in life.
Only when you do it, will you find that the difficulty is a small ant; Only if you do it, you will find that you can do it yourself!
Life is a cutting machine, and you don't have a soft heart at all.
Don't be a delicate girl, even if you only encounter a little difficulty, you will be brought by pear blossoms.
Maybe someone will shield you from the wind and rain at the beginning, and after a long time, no matter how strong the backer is, it will go away.
What we have to do is to gild our hearts with gold and put on armor, so that when facing the difficulties of life, we will not break when we touch them or break them when we pinch them.
Let's be our own female general!
Learning to reject others is the first step in your journey towards generosity.
Be brave enough to say no, and you will be able to protect your own energy, your own magnetic field.
When someone asks you for something, don't make up all kinds of reasons, just refuse directly and politely.
If you are embarrassed to embarrass you, you don't have to embarrass yourself!
When you are brave enough to say no to the people around you, you will find that you will have a lot less troubles before you know it.
There is also more time to improve yourself.
No one is confident from the start.
You can "pretend", and this "pretending" is not for you to do false things.
Psychologically speaking, this is called self-psychological suggestion.
At the beginning of each day, you can say to yourself, "I can!" I'm great! I can do it".Say these magical words a few times a day, and the more you say them, the more you find that you can become more confident.
If you are confident in yourself, you will be more generous in doing things.
Avoid! Girls,Don't belittle yourself casually, suppress yourself, if you say too many negative things, it is really easy to become true.
Even if you mess up something, don't worry too much, and remind yourself from a different angle, "Oh, pay attention to this detail" or "So you did something wrong here, don't pay attention next time!" ”
If you do something wrong, don't keep complaining about yourself, blaming yourself, and criticizing yourself, but stand on your own side, empathize, tolerate, and encourage yourself!
Those who insist on reading books and those who don't read books are destined to live a different life.
People who read more books are wiser, more tolerant, and more open-minded.
Dong Yuhui is a stark example.
He looks ordinary, nourishes himself with books, and uses reading to practice himself to be generous, neither humble nor arrogant, which has attracted the love of tens of millions of people.
Even in the face of workplace injustice, he was able to maintain his mentality and go to a broader world.
Arm your brain with knowledge, enrich your inner body with books, and after a long time, you can be as confident as Dong Yuhui.
So, in 2024, go to read books, read history, read psychology, and if you can't change on the outside, then take the initiative to change on the inside.
When the inner life becomes abundant, the outer life will slowly change.
Life is like an airtight net that makes it difficult for us to get stuck in it.
At this time, you have to be brave enough to tear a hole and let in fresh air.
Cultivating a hobby, learning a skill, is the breath of fresh air in your life.
This hobby must be done slowly, practiced slowly, and it must be done day by day, so that there will be a meritorious donation.
Although the hobby is small, it is like a glimmer of light, allowing you to feel warm and find confidence in the boring life.
No one will look through your scruffy exterior to see your interesting inside.
You don't need beautiful clothes, you don't need expensive jewelry, you don't need to wear clothes that don't suit you, you will be more twisted.
All you need is the clothes that are clean and tidy every day.
Shakespeare said, "Dressing is the outward expression of inner cultivation." ”
A woman's clothing can often reflect whether her inner world is clean and whether she has the vitality of life.
If you want to be down-to-earth and generous, you must love yourself more and give yourself a lot of encouragement.
When you take good care of yourself, your mentality will naturally become very good, and as soon as you have a good attitude, your behavior will be generous.
Love yourself, and the world will love you!