Ding, a 68-year-old retiree, is 175 meters, with a stable pension of 1,000 yuan per month. She is optimistic and cheerful, and although described as "loose", this is precisely her easy-going, uninhibited personality. She said frankly that she is not picky about her appearance, but values the other party's ability to cook and good character, and she loves her as a person deep down.
When it comes to remarriage, Ding made it clear that he needs a bride price. With the help of the matchmaker, she met a divorced man, Yu. Yu also longs for his wife to accompany him, he believes that having a wife in his later years is the key to happiness, and he is quite satisfied with Ding's impression. However, when it comes to the bride price, the two.
There is a divergence of ideas.
Ding hopes to get a bride price of 100,000 yuan, which is undoubtedly a huge burden for Yu, who has no job. Yu felt that this was more like a transaction, which was difficult to accept. He believes that marriage should be an exchange of emotions and mutual support, not a transaction of money.
Despite this, the matchmaker thinks that one of these two people wants a bride price and the other is willing to give a bride price, and they will definitely be able to talk together. So they were arranged to meet and get to know each other. However, when they sat down to talk, Ding felt that although Yu didn't know how to do housework, he liked men to be in charge of the house and didn't want to worry about trivial matters. It made him feel like they could talk.
However, when it came to deeper communication, Ding made her request to remarry: she had to give her a thousand yuan a month for pocket money. This exceeded Yu's expectations, he said that he was willing to cook and laundry, but would not accept pocket money every month.
In the end, the blind date between Ding and Yu ended because of the bride price of 100,000 yuan. Although they all had their own expectations and requirements, they could not reach a consensus in the end.
For this matter, I think everyone has their own way of life and values. Yu saw it very clearly that he refused to accept a marriage with a clear price and did not want to fall into a bottomless pit of money transactions. And Ding's love for her son also shows her kind side, but her ideas may be too traditional and stubborn.
In real life, we should learn to understand and respect each other's differences. Marriage should not be just about satisfying an individual's material needs, but should be based on mutual respect, understanding, and affection. What do you think about the fact that if both parties can communicate openly, understand and respect each other's views and needs, then such a marriage relationship is likely to be long-lasting and stable?