From asking for you to "taking the initiative".
What is the basis for judging whether a girl only wants to have an affair with you or wants to develop a long-term relationship with you?
If she just wants to be ambiguous, then she will only ask for it from you.
Claim your emotional value:
complaining, complaining, and confiding with you every day, you are more of a tool for "chatting".
Claim your substance:
What she wants, what she wants to buy, and she wants you to spend money on her, she will show a "little woman posture".
Be coquettish, say nice things to praise you, and give you some promises.
Request your time:
When I use you, I think of you;
When you are bored, you have to be accompanied;
If you can't, she'll turn her face.
And what about the girl who likes you?
After getting your pay, she will respond to you in time;
She sees the cost of time, emotion, money and other costs you put into her;
At the right opportunity, she will also make you feel her dedication.
Measure of the transition from ambiguity to like:
Supply and feedback are beginning to balance.
Generate more trust and security in you
In the ambiguous stage, the topics you talk about are relatively shallow;
Floating on the surface, with little depth.
only talk about the wind and snow, not about firewood, rice, oil and salt;
Only probing, flirting, and mobilizing the other party's emotions, but unwilling to have deeper communication with the other party.
From ambiguous to liked, what has changed?
It is the topic of the chat, the content of the chat, which involves more self-privacy.
For example, she starts to share her family, life and career with you;
She is even willing to share with you her past experiences and her own views on marriage and love.
The frequency and depth of the desire to share is the basis for judging the feelings of two people.
Think about it: Do you talk too deeply about someone you don't know and don't trust?
Surely it won't be, right?
When you talk to each other more deeply, you will subconsciously share all your life with the other party;
This shows that you subconsciously trust the other person.
Trusting a person for a long time turns into a sense of security;
After chatting for a long time, it becomes a habit;
Girls who like you will have an obvious desire to share and unconditional trust in you.
Mood swings are more pronounced when I'm with you
The Little Prince" says:
You come at four o'clock in the afternoon, then from three o'clock I feel happy".
That's the sense of anticipation.
Girls like you and expect everything related to you.
Looking forward to chatting with you and meeting you;
Looking forward to having more contact and intersection with you.
I may even look forward to spending time alone with you.
She will have mood swings:
When she sees you getting along with the opposite sex, she gets jealous;
When she sees you happy, she is happy;
Seeing that you are silent, she becomes anxious and nervous, suffering from gains and losses.
Your every move will affect her mood.
What is the essence of liking someone?
It is a fluctuation of emotions that can be manipulated at will.
You know that you seem to be trapped, and you may "lose control";
But the moment you like each other, you are willing to sink so much.
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