In interpersonal communication, chat is an important form of communication. Through chatting, we can get to know each other, enhance our relationship, and share our joys and worries.
However, there are some topics that need to be approached with caution when chatting, especially about certain aspects of yourself. The ancients had a saying: "If you say too much, you will lose", this sentence warns us to be cautious when talking to people.
In particular, try not to talk about the following four things, so as not to leak out the good fortune and bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.
1. Don't talk about your wealth and status.
Wealth and status are goals that many people pursue, but they are also topics that can easily trigger jealousy and envy. When chatting with people, if you show off your wealth and status too much, it is easy to arouse the disgust of others.
On the one hand, it can make those who are not as financially well-off as you feel inferior and depressed; On the other hand, it can also lead to bad intentions by those with bad intentions, such as fraud, blackmail, etc.
Therefore, in order to protect our good fortune, we should avoid talking too much about our wealth and status in the chat.
2. Don't talk about your private life and emotional privacy.
Private life and emotional privacy is everyone's personal privacy and should be respected and protected.
However, some people unconsciously reveal too much privacy and emotional privacy when chatting with others, in order to get closer to each other or seek comfort. Doing so not only makes it easy to put yourself in an embarrassing situation, but it may also be used or spread by others, causing unnecessary trouble.
Therefore, we should learn to protect our privacy and avoid talking too much about our private life and emotional privacy in chats.
3. Don't talk about your past mistakes and mistakes.
Past mistakes and mistakes are part of everyone's growth process, and they are also places where we should reflect and learn from them.
However, if you overemphasize your past mistakes and mistakes when chatting with people, it is easy to give people a negative impression that you are an irresponsible person who lacks self-discipline.
In addition, talking too much about your past mistakes and mistakes can also lead to feelings of self-blame and remorse, which can affect your mental health.
Therefore, we should learn to face up to our past, but not talk too much about it in the chat, but focus on how to improve and grow.
Fourth, don't talk about your own plans and intentions.
Plans and intentions are our vision and planning for the future, and they represent our goals and pursuits.
However, when chatting with people, if you reveal your plans and intentions too soon, you may cause yourself unnecessary trouble.
On the one hand, this may make some ill-intentioned people prepare in advance to interfere with or sabotage your plans; On the other hand, it can also make you lose motivation and passion by opening up about your plans too soon.
Therefore, we should learn to maintain a certain sense of mystery in the chat, not to reveal our plans and intentions too soon, but to wait until the right time to share them with others.
In conclusion, when chatting with people, we should choose topics carefully and avoid talking about the above four things. This is done not only to protect one's own good fortune and privacy, but also to maintain good relationships and mental health.
Of course, this is not to say that we should avoid talking about these topics altogether, but that we should share them with others at the right time and in the right place.
In addition, we need to learn to listen to the stories and experiences of others. In a chat, don't always put yourself at the center, but learn to listen to the thoughts and feelings of others.
By listening, we can get to know others better and increase our understanding and trust. At the same time, we can also help and support others by sharing our own experiences and insights.
Finally, we want to remember that chatting is a process of interaction and communication, and we should treat others with sincerity, kindness, and respect.
In the chat, don't show off or criticize others too much, but listen and understand them with a calm and inclusive mind.
Only in this way can we establish a real sense of interpersonal relationship and make the communication and communication between each other more pleasant and meaningful.
In short, when we talk to people, we should try to talk as little as possible about our wealth and status, our private life and emotional privacy, our past mistakes and mistakes, and our plans and intentions.
We need to learn to protect our own blessings and privacy, while also respecting the feelings and needs of others. By communicating with others with sincerity, kindness and respect, we can build real relationships and make each other's lives better and more fulfilling.