Chinese Dinner Social Dinner is the epitome of social life, which greatly affects our lives, and even many very important things have been agreed upon at the dinner, and then confirmed in the form at work. There is a lot of "exquisiteness" in the dinner, there is a lot of common sense, and some of it has become knowledge, and it has become the rules of people's interactions in modern society.
Therefore, the organization of the dinner is very important, and the operation of the dinner is a very cumbersome matter, and there are many "exquisite".
First of all, it is necessary to warm up. You need to say in a public place (such as a WeChat group) about a week in advance, what time is it, who will fund the host, and what the nature of the dinner is, so that everyone knows in their hearts, prepares in advance, and makes everyone happy. "Good things are said in advance, bad things are postponed", there is an exciting "dinner", meet with the good, and think about how beautiful life is.
The second is to communicate information. Contact the key person privately, agree on the time, place and other matters, such as when it is convenient for the person to be invited, whether the important guest is available, and then roughly set the time and place, leaving room for it. Other individuals don't have time to communicate privately and apologize, because it is impossible for everyone to be free, and unfulfillment is the essence of the world.
Then comes confirmation. After setting the time and place, a formal notice will be issued one or two days in advance. If the guests can't arrive and arrive on time, don't let the victim urge them one by one; There may also be someone who has something temporary, and it is necessary to explain what is going on in a timely manner, and there are more important things that everyone understands.
Finally, there is the dinner, and everyone knows the basic rules, such as seating arrangement, "guests do not bring guests", let the host order, pay attention to the invitees, and so on. A basic principle is that if you are the east, you will do what you want others to do, and you will not do what you don't want others to do.
Of course, it is not easy to organize and operate a dinner, and there will always be some flaws and regrets, which will sometimes become the trigger and starting point for the next dinner. So in the endless meal, bustling and bustling, groups of people, generations of people trying to play their role in the curtain up, so that life is colorful and the society is full of vitality.
Nowadays, the mainstream "important people" of the dinner party are the post-70s and post-80s, who "seriously" affect the "exquisiteness" and rules of the dinner, and in a small county, a small dinner sometimes affects or determines the future of millions of ordinary people. As ordinary people, for ordinary meals, we either choose to accept and integrate, or choose to avoid them. However, you can't affect your life and career plan because of the trivial things in the dinner, otherwise you will be reprimanded and will not be able to enter the stream, affect your reputation, and affect your career and future. Therefore, it is necessary to understand the "exquisiteness" of some dinners.
However, with the development of society and the change of the times, the fledgling post-90s and even post-00s have become a force that changes or even breaks the rules of the dinner: they don't drink and ignore the rules. The change and unchanged of the "exquisite" of the dinner, "mediocrity does not disturb themselves", let time test.