The woman's name is Yaoyao,Two months ago, she found a transfer record on her husband's mobile phone, the amount was 200 yuan, and the transfer was made to her mother-in-law. As a son, it is natural to give money to his parents, but Yaoyao was angry that her husband didn't discuss it with her, which obviously didn't take her to heart, so she had a big quarrel with her husband and went back to her parents' house in a fit of anger.
I wanted to play a little trick, because her husband would come to coax her to go back, but now two months have passed, and her husband has not moved at all, she was a little anxious, so she took the initiative to contact her husband. Her husband's attitude was surprising, so indifferent that she couldn't adapt to itSo she filed for divorce, not wanting her husband to still look indifferentYaoyao was completely panicked at this point, she didn't want to divorce and had two children, so she found a mediator, hoping to get back together with her husband.
After the mediator understood the situation, he went to her mother-in-law's house with Yaoyao, but her husband Li Wei saw Yaoyao, but he behaved very indifferently, only caring about playing with the child by himself, and he didn't speak in the face of the mediator's inquiry, and then left directly with the child, the mediator chased out the door and wanted to talk to Li Wei, but he didn't want the other party to drive away.
The mediator had no choice but to ask Li Wei's parents about the situation, but when Li Wei was mentioned, Li's father, a man over half a hundred years old, hid his face and cried. It turned out that since Yaoyao returned to her parents' house, Li Wei was depressed all day long, and Li's father saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart, and he was afraid that his son would not be able to think of letting him send a white-haired person to a black-haired person.
Regarding the 200 yuan, Li's mother explained, she said that at the beginning, Yaoyao asked her to make a few quilts, but she didn't give her money, and there were many quilts at home that there was no need to make them anymore, so she complained a few wordsThe mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a big quarrel about this, and Li Wei was caught in the middle of a dilemma, and in order to appease his mother's emotions, he quietly transferred 200 yuan to his motherdidn't want Yaoyao to find out, so she found him and made a fuss, and then left the child and went back to her parents' house.
It's really not worth it to make a fuss like this for 200 dollarsSo the mediator asked Li's father to call Li Wei and ask him to come back to solve the problem, Li's father hesitated, he didn't want to force his son, but the matter had to be resolved, so he still called Li Wei **. However, before he could say a few words of persuasion, Li Wei hung up **, and then hit Li Wei again and didn't answer, Li's father had no choice but to go out to look for it in person, and 15 minutes later, Li's father came back alone, obviously he didn't find Li Wei.
But soon Li Wei suddenly came back with the child in his arms, and Li Wei replied in the face of the mediator's inquiryThere are three sisters in his family, he is the eldest in the family, there is an older brother and an older sister, the eldest brother runs a small shop, and his mother occasionally goes to help. It's nothing, even if it's a neighbor to help, it's normal, let alone a son, but the wife can't accept it, every time the mother goes to help the wife, she will be angry with their mother and son,Over time, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become worse and worse.
And for this matterYaoyao also has something to say, she said that her mother-in-law has always been partial to the old family, and whenever she has time, she will help the boss sell things but ignore her childrenThroughout the year, my mother-in-law was reluctant to buy clothes for her childrenBut for the eldest brother's children, the mother-in-law is very concerned, and this differential treatment makes her very uncomfortableSo he was reluctant to give money to his mother-in-law, and even said: I have been married for seven years now, and when I get home, I will follow up on hell.
Hearing Yaoyao say this, her mother-in-law was very helpless and said that she had never favored anyone, Yaoyao's eldest son was born 6 months ago, and he suffered from Down syndrome, although he is now 7 years old, but he still needs someone to feed and dress and someone to help, and he can't leave people around at all.
And over the years, it has been their old couple who have taken care of the children, and even because the children are sick, they have spent more energy, otherwise the children would not have slept with them until nowIt is true that the eldest child was brought up by them, but Yaoyao's two children have always been brought by them, so why not be biased.
Yaoyao also admitted that she basically didn't take care of her eldest son 8 months after he was born, but what made her dissatisfied was that her in-laws often left the child in the care of her uncleBecause the uncle only has one eye to see and is still hemiplegic, he can't take care of the child himself, and the eldest brother's children, the in-laws have never been handed over to the uncle, in her opinion, this is eccentricity.
Hearing this, Li Wei was very speechless, he explained that the uncle had never married because of his disability, so he had been living with his parents, and his parents occasionally worked in the fields, and it was inconvenient to take his eldest son with him, so he would let the uncle help take care of it, and this kind of thing didn't happen often, and he didn't understand why his wife was so calculating.
After listening to the words of the husband and wife, the mediator persuaded Yaoyao that it was her own responsibility to take care of the children, and her in-laws did not have this obligation, and she should not kidnap her in-laws morally, let alone quarrel with her in-laws for this. Immediately, the mediator said to Li Wei that when there was a conflict in the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he should not choose to be a bystander, but should coordinate from it.
Yaoyao said that she knew that her behavior was too radical, and this time she came in the hope that she could live a good life with her husband through adjustment, and Li Wei also softened when she heard this, saying that his greatest wish was family harmony, and he hoped that his wife could restrain her temper in the future.
But at this time, Yaoyao put forward another request, saying that in order to avoid such an incident from happening again, she asked Li Wei to hand over the passbook to her for safekeeping, and then ask her for it when she wanted to use it, but Li Wei disagreed, because his wife had a conflict with her parents before, so she took all the money back to her parents' house, so this time, he no longer dared to believe his wife's words.
Yaoyao was immediately unhappy when she saw Li Wei's attitude, and put down the sentence "Then don't talk about it" and got up and left, the mediator chased out and continued to persuade her, she hoped that Yaoyao could put aside the matter of money and solve the conflict with her husband first, but Yaoyao insisted that money was more important than life.
The mediator had no choice but to coordinate with Li's father, saying that they could help take care of the eldest son and let the younger couple go to rent a house outside by themselves, the mediator felt that this method was feasible, so he persuaded Li Wei again to save the money for a fixed time, and the passbook was handed over to Yaoyao for safekeeping, and then the husband and wife went to rent a house outside to live, which could effectively avoid the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but Li Wei was resolute, if he talked to me about money, he didn't want to talk about it without talking about it.
It turned out that Li Wei did this a year ago, he handed over his eldest son to his parents and moved out with Yaoyao, but even so, Yaoyao was still not satisfied, and asked her parents to pay more, and the people in the village also mediated for them many times, if Yaoyao didn't change, then they would have no future at all.
When the mediator heard this, he tried to persuade Yaoyao, but Yaoyao was also very persistent, after more than 6 hours of persuasion, the husband and wife have never been able to get along with the issue of money, they disregarded their young children, and also disregarded the 7-year friendship between husband and wife, and decided to divorce through legal channels.
It is said that talking about money hurts feelings, and there is really no need to worry too much about husband and wife, trust each other and understand each other, so that they can be happy.