01.Don't go home for the New Year
If it weren't for the epidemic, many people might not be able to adapt to not going home for the New Year, and in the Spring Festival of 2022, how many people are living in rental houses, alone.
At that time, I didn't go home for the New Year, and it was reasonable to say that the city was closed. But now that I don't go home for the New Year, it seems that there is really no suitable excuse for outsiders to ask. Maybe it's too troublesome, maybe there's no relatives in my hometown, maybe it's because I haven't earned money for the New Year, or maybe I'm used to being alone.
It's only the year to go home, and now the relatives there are slowly gone, and the hometown seems to be becoming more and more strange. Many familiar shots are still there, but when I think about it, I feel empty and desolate. If you don't go home for the New Year, it's not much different from usual, but there are more people at the station and attractions, there are fewer takeaways, and the delivery fee is expensive. This is why many people feel that the Chinese New Year is becoming more and more boring.
The greasy food is not comfortable, and the more the New Year, the more I want to drink some rice porridge, eat some vegetarian dishes, and rest quietly. Thinking that the New Year will start in a few days, I will also be anxious. And time passes through the afternoon sun, slowly disappearing on the fence by the river, until the exercisers go home one by one.
Today is the second day of the Lunar New Year, and it has been two days since the New Year.
02.Distant marriage
When I was alone, I said I would go home, and I would have dinner at home in the evening after booking a plane ticket, and I would leave as soon as I said I, free and chic. Points for miles, even the air ticket money was saved, and at that time I felt that home was two or three hours away.
When I dragged my family with me, when I looked at the ticket and time, it became an obstacle to go home, and thousands of air tickets were closed every year, hindering how many people from going home. There are many people, and they are sinned, and they feel tired to think about it.
Even if the conditions are good, it's great to go back twice a year, and many conditions are average, and you can't go back once in a few years, all relying on **and**communication. Usually there is something going on, but I can't get to the front, and it is not an exaggeration to say that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
Parents raised their children, and then their children married far away, and even the number of times they met in this life was only a handful, so whether there were children or not seemed to be really a matter of more or less sustenance.
I can't enjoy the joy of family, I can't take care of it at ordinary times, and I can't see it a few times when I'm old, which reminds me of a sentence: life is a lonely trip! In the adult world, no one is easy, and sometimes they can't even take care of themselves.
03.Older ageor divorced.
Girls grow up without a home. There may be an exception for the only daughter here, because when the only daughter goes, her parents will follow.
If you are not an only child, your parents have an older brother or younger brother by your side, and you have grandchildren, and if you are not married in your thirties, you will really feel embarrassed to go home. Especially if you are divorced, you feel that you have no face to go back.
It's nothing, but that's the Chinese tradition. Therefore, when the girl grows up, she still has to get married and have her own home, so that she will not feel lonely during the New Year's Festival, and if there is anything, someone will face it together.
Divorce is the same, even if you have felt the despair of marriage, if you are not strong enough, you must find appropriate support. In life, it is really not easy for a girl. So those who marry well, can meet a good husband, and have a perfect family are indeed very good personalities.
The older you get, the more boring your life is. Love is divided and combined, tired, wants to form a family, and there is no such suitable person, no children and no daughters, as if there is no connection with the world except work.
When you were young, you said that you didn't want to get married, which may be true. When I was in my thirties, I said that I didn't want to get married, and I didn't even believe it, but I just thought about it, and there was no one who could live together.
Watching her check in everywhere, maybe it's really too idle, so idle that she can't even find someone who is crazy together.