Spring Festival self-help cheats: 40 seconds hard control of the whole audience + psychological counseling tips, relatives ask? Pass the test steadily!
The Spring Festival, the traditional festival that makes people happy and worried, is here again. I am happy to be able to reunite with my family and enjoy a warm time; What worries me is that I have to face all kinds of "care" and "torture" from my relatives. Don't worry, this year we have prepared a special self-help cheats for you, combined with psychological counseling tips, so that you can control the whole audience in 40 seconds and easily respond to the questions of relatives!
Relatives ask: How is the work? How much money did you make?
You answer: The work is very fulfilling, with many new challenges and opportunities. As for the income, I think it's okay, and more importantly, I have learned a lot of valuable experience and skills on the job.
Counseling Tips: When asked about a sensitive topic such as income, don't answer specific numbers directly, so as not to trigger unnecessary comparisons and controversies. You can change the topic or answer vaguely to highlight your own growth and progress.
Relatives asked: Did you buy a house? When to get married?
You answer: Both the house and the marriage are important things in life, and I am seriously thinking about and planning for them. I believe that in the near future, there will be a suitable house and partner for me.
Counseling Tips: Be confident and firm when it comes to your personal life choices. Don't let the expectations and pressures of others sway your decisions, trust your heart and instincts.
Relatives asked: Why haven't you had children yet? When to have a second child?
You answer: Having a baby is an important decision, and my partner and I are working on it. We will arrange it according to our actual situation and plan, and hope to get your understanding and support.
Counseling Tips: When it comes to fertility, everyone has their own plans and considerations. Don't rush decisions to meet the expectations of others, respect your own and your partner's choices.
Relatives ask: Why are you fat again? Why are you so skinny?
You answer: I may have eaten better lately Recently, I have been busy at work and have no time to exercise. But I'm already paying attention to adjusting my diet and exercising, and health is the most important thing.
Counseling Tips: When it comes to evaluating your body and appearance, learn to accept your imperfections. Don't care too much about what others think, it's more important to focus on your own health and inner beauty.
In addition to the above coping methods, the counselor also recommends that you do the following:
1.Maintain a positive mindset and believe that you can cope with various challenges and problems.
2.Learn to listen to and understand the perspectives and concerns of others, and respond in a peaceful, rational manner.
3.Set aside some alone time for relaxation activities such as meditation and deep breathing.
4.If you encounter a particularly bothering or sensitive issue, you can choose to humorously avoid or change the subject.
Finally, I wish you a happy Chinese New Year and a relaxed and happy time with this wonderful festival!