This Spring Festival is over, and it is tiring to visit relatives and friends, entertain relatives and friends, and kowtow to bad habits....It's all finally over, although it will be repeated next year.
The year cannot be in vain, although tired, but there is always a harvest.
Relatives, a lot of it is a matter of face. It's not that I'm ruthless. As the saying goes, the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence. Can you accept that your relatives are always asking about your income? Can you stand your relatives going on and on about the short things in the family? What is he unreasonable, he can't stand me, complain about this, complain about that, who is not a thing, and that false greeting, hypocritically retaining, repeating year after year, and the sour words of those who can't see that you are doing well.
All of this is really annoying.
But, this year, I saw it clearly and understood.
Actually, I don't have to care about what they say, what they ask, what is true and what is false, I just need to deal with it on the surface, I don't have to take it too seriously, anyway, after this year, it will be difficult for anyone to see anyone.
After returning to my place of work from my hometown, I returned to a regular life.
Calming down, I told myself that life is my own, simple and fulfilling.
Work is the foundation of my life, I have to do it well, I am glad that I have a job that does not earn much but is stable, the key is that I like it.
Son, let him be, although not excellent, but not hopelessly bad, if I manage too closely for fear of backfire, he has his own path in life, I just do my duty.
Parents, as they grow old day by day, I wish them a long and healthy life, and if the day comes when I need to serve, I will not shirk my responsibility.
Love, I'm so lucky I have her. For more than ten years, although there is noise, but we will not give up, sometimes it is like glue, we know each other that no one can leave anyone.
Then, it's my study.
I'm a barely socially active person, and I spend almost all of my time studying except for work and family, even though I'm past my prime.
The two books of advanced mathematics are almost finished, followed by analytic geometry, probability theory and mathematical statistics, differential geometry, complex variable function theory, and Riemannian geometry, which are all books to read in the next two years, and then the textbooks of advanced physics, which must be studied again.
Have a plan every day, read books quietly, do problems, and that's it, until you are old, it is enough.
For the rest, I'm not interested.
I laughed even more at the fact that I went with the flow.