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10. Recognize people from attitude.
There is some truth in the saying that attitude determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny. This starts with a character definition. Personality is the sum of a person's stable attitude towards reality and habitual behavior, good habits create good character, and bad habits create bad character. Of course, good habits and bad habits have different effects on a person's future development. In this sense, it is reasonable that character determines fate. Good habits are a kind of wealth, start from little by little, develop a good character, no matter what you do, good habits will benefit you for a lifetime.
This sentence should apply to most people, it should be that behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny. But the reverse is also true, as an adult, you should face up to your life and current situation, reverse the process of life, find your ultimate life goals and values, and improve your behavior and habits and even personality, so that your character and destiny are mutually promoting and positive. If you only talk about character determines fate, it can only be regarded as a negative and fateful attitude towards life. Personality is only one factor that determines fate (usually refers to a successful life), it does have a certain influence, such as the first impression, the civility of conversation, the control of emotions, and so on.
It can be hard for you to realize how important personality is to yourself, but once you change to someone else's eye, it's not so casual, and the picky person tends to make your luck go down. So personality certainly affects fate, but since it can be changed for the better, no matter what, fate can always change. Remember that the change of personality cannot be changed by external forces, you must start from within, read good books, be with noble people, do what you should do, and always remember your dreams, then, unconsciously, your personality has been imperceptibly changed qualitatively.
Different people, different personalities: those who believe in fate wait, those who believe in opportunities seek, and those who believe in self develop.
The maturity of character is relative, and absolute maturity does not exist. In terms of the uncertainties in the environment in which people live, there are also certain changes in personality, but unless there is a big stimulus (such as falling out of love, having an accident with someone important to you, a major failure or setback, etc.), a person's personality is basically stable once it is formed. Character determines fate, and habits affect life.
But it all depends on your attitude towards life!Therefore, through a person's attitude towards everything, a person's character can be completely refried, which is also a dialectical reversal.
It is not easy to directly discover a person's character, but it is not difficult to see a person's attitude towards things, so attitude is a clue to confirm a person's character, which can be touched along the vine.
For example, a person with a positive attitude is positive in the face of everything, does not complain, does not get discouraged, does not retreat, on the contrary, is passive and complains!
People with a positive attitude are well organized in all aspects of life, handle things in an orderly manner, and do not mess with the rules, while negative people are easy to panic and lose their minds when they encounter problems.