The New Year is approaching, and in the impression of the older generation, the New Year should be a scene of "family reunion" and "happiness", where everyone gathers together to eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner and celebrate the New Year happily. But today, the reality tells us that more and more post-90s and post-00s generations have chosen to "break off their relatives" and do not want to "go to relatives" even during the Chinese New Year. So why is that?
Reason 1: There is only money left in the eyes.
Among relatives now, it can be described in one sentence: I hate you for being poor, I am afraid that you are rich, I hate you for having it, and I laugh at you for not having it! It is very common to visit relatives during the New Year, but with the penetration of money into human nature. 80% of the current people are in a relationship with you, not because of how deep your relationship with him is, but mainly to see whether you have money and whether you can take advantage of you, is there still a need for such a relationship? Can it still be counted as a relative?
Reason 2: Lack of human touch.
When family affection is adulterated and with money, you will find that even if it is a former friend of life and death, it will become worthless. Relatives and relatives, no longer close, only money in their eyes? What other feelings are you talking about? Where does family affection begin? Even if everyone gets together, pretends to be smiling, and is suspicious of each other, isn't it interesting?
Reason 3: Compare with each other.
Everyone in the upper class of society praises people, people in the middle class compare people, and people in the lower class step on people. The same is true between relatives, if your relatives are poor and life is difficult, then it is certain that your relationship is "stepping on each other". As for the middle-class people, they are panicked and anxious every day, comparing themselves with each other, for fear that they will be compared by others. It's not interesting to want such relatives.
Reason 4: Hypocrisy pretends to care about you.
The most terrible thing in the world is not the real bad people, the really terrible ones are the fake good people, those who are kind and black-hearted, hungry wolves dressed in human skin, in fact, such people have them among your relatives, and they should be honest with each other and care about each other during the New Year, but some people pretend to be smiling, insidious and cunning, smiling tigers, pretending to care about you in front of you, and saying bad things about you behind your back immediately when you leave. Bad in the back. Disgusting.
Reason 5: Inquire about your privacy and talk about you behind your back.
Don't reveal your privacy to your relatives at will, because once they learn that your life is better than theirs, they will hate you in their hearts, and thus make all kinds of calculations behind your back, dismantle you, and disgust you. And if they learn that you are not as good as them, they will come out and desperately belittle you, point fingers at you, talk about you behind your back, sarcastically mock you, and ridicule you. Disgusting.
Reason 6: When they meet, they borrow money to calculate and harm each other.
Some people say that where there are people, there are rivers and lakes! In fact, this sentence is right, because even in his own family, Zeng Shiqiang Zeng Lao once said when he was alive, Chinese-style kinship. Most families often have the most between each other: calculating each other, comparing each other, since the relationship has become like this, reduced to such a point, and there is discord between each other, is it necessary to stir up harmony together? Disgusting.
The above reasons have led to the current young people and many people choosing to "break off their relatives", maybe this is the product of the current special period and the new era, we should actually understand young people and understand those who break off their relatives, because they are more or less deceived by feelings, hurt, and no longer have any illusions about family affection. And this is also the beginning of the awakening of humanity. Looking at the developed economies of the world, almost everyone has been so simple that there is only respect, equality, trade, and exchange. The people in their country do not have such a complex human society as China, and there is no so-called "human sophistication". And this is actually the embodiment of civilization.
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