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According to the "Qianjiang Evening News", Fu Tian, a college student from Yunnan Town, chopped more than 700 catties of firewood before leaving home and left it for his grandparents, which is one of the most touching hot searches a few days ago. In Zhejiang, the children who are growing up also use various actions to interpret the meaning of "companionship" - Zhuji girl Chu Qidi made a set of fashion blockbusters for her nearly 100-year-old grandmother, Yuechen, a sophomore Jinhua girl, made desserts for her elders, and Xiao Zhao, a post-90s generation in Hangzhou, took her own MV for her mother.
If the suitcases and trunks full of young people returning carry the heavy love and affection of the elders, some young people who are growing up also use "heart-to-heart companionship" to feed back love and go both ways. Whether it is "I shoot a blockbuster for my grandmother", "I make desserts for my elders", or "I shoot a music video for my mother", "heartfelt companionship" as a means of emotional expression has become a kind of bond between relatives for social bonding.
Take "chopping firewood for grandparents during the winter vacation" as an example, it is not firewood that is put into the back basket, but the love of a "post-00s" for grandparents. Fu Tian, who studied high-speed railway service at a junior college in Kunming, was "fostered by the next generation" since he was a child, and he has a deep affection for his grandparents; I left enough space for my grandparents in my heart, understood the hardships and difficulties of the elders' lives, and cared for them in the best way I could, witnessing the spiritual growth of a "post-00s".
The traditional family concept with blood and ethics as the core drives the elders and the younger generations to move in the same direction. Helping the elderly chop wood, hoeing the ground, buying medicine and new shoes for their grandparents, "heart-to-heart companionship" not only saves grandparents worry and effort, but also makes them feel the "gentle treatment" of their grandchildren. Taking advantage of the summer vacation to work part-time at the construction site, he is full of kindness and warmth, but also self-improvement and perseverance, and the young man who "chops firewood for grandparents during the winter vacation" has a promising future.
Everyone will eventually grow old, and the elderly should not be a marginalized group in modern society, and the elderly can also be the object of attention. Those who are "slowing down" in the digital wave need young people to "wait" and "help"; Whether it's "I make a blockbuster movie for my grandmother" or "I shoot a music video for my mother", the care and help of young people allows the elderly to better embrace the digital age, which to some extent meets their spiritual and emotional needs.
Helping the elders do what they can, leading the elders to experience some experiences that they have never had, and having a little more care and companionship is the best gift for the elders. With the acceleration of social mobility, many young people and their elders are often far apart, and they take advantage of holidays and festivals to reunite. In the limited time together, how to carry out more high-quality and warm "heart-to-heart companionship" for the elders is a realistic test question in front of every young person.
No man is an island, and the "empty nest and hollow" old people are eager for more spiritual nourishment. Although there are differences in the form and path of emotional expression of "heart-to-heart companionship", giving more spiritual support to the elders is the common background. In the context of the basic protection of material life needs, the spiritual and emotional needs of the elderly are becoming more and more prominent; Break the trap of "festival concentration, ordinary sparseness" and "heavy material support, light spiritual support", and more attentive and affectionate "heart-to-heart companionship", so that the life of the elderly will be better. Yang Chaoqing.