Hey guys! Have you received any greetings and wishes for Valentine's Day lately? But today I want to talk to you about a topic that may or may not be related to Valentine's Day at all - urging marriage.
For young people, urging marriage is simply a compulsory course for returning home for the New Year, and the words of relatives and friends are like a collective bombardment of single young people, which makes people feel stressed and anxious.
Some people say that they are not looking for a partner no matter how old they are, some people say that they are almost 30 years old, and they are almost there, and some people say that their lives are incomplete without marriage and children.
Recently, there is a trend called reverse marriage urging that has become a hot topic. Some young people choose to face the pressure of their family members to get married, take the initiative to express their expectations to their families, and even ask their family members to introduce them to their partners. This may be able to relieve some of the stress, but it is worth pondering whether such a marriage is truly happy.
Recently, a Japanese drama was launched, called "1000 Marriage Books" tells the story of the protagonist who participates in various blind date activities in order to find a marriage partner. In this era when the era of marriage for all people in Japan is gone, blind dates have become a mainstream way of marriage. However, the blind date objects are often ridiculous and strange, which seems funny but also makes people think deeply.
For example, in the play, the protagonist meets an open relationship lover, a fraudster, and a superb mom boy. The behavior of these blind dates is not only ridiculous, but also reflects the absurdity of blind dates in reality.
However, we can't help but wonder, what are these marriages for? Is it to cater to the expectations and pressures of society, or is it for true love and happiness? With the development of society, marriage is no longer a life stage that people have to go through, but a way of life that can be chosen.
We can't deny that marriage is a kind of reliance and security for many people. However, if marriage is only about getting rid of family and social pressures, then the end result may not be satisfactory.
So, whether you're married or a single friend, don't be swayed by the pressures of marriage. The important thing is to find a lifestyle that suits you and live a happy life that truly belongs to you.
I believe that everyone has their own happiness, whether they are married or single, they should be proud of their choice. May everyone find their own happiness and live a truly happy life!
Marriage, urging marriage, singleness, happy life.