Introduction: Recently, I saw a hotly discussed ** on the Internet. , a little girl of four or five years old because her grandfather did not buy it for herToysAnd the crying did not stop. However, it is not this scene that really attracts people's attention, but the grandmother who is *** present. Grandma waved her cane and urged Grandpa to buy it quicklyToysTo the granddaughter, it is amazing the warmth and warmth of this familyAffection。The comments are filled with expressions of warmth and love, which makes me think of the problem that when it is our own child's turn, we are always worried that the grandparents overspoil the child and ignore the harmony and warmth of the family.
The scene shown in this ** is not unusual. When the child is young, if he is overly pampered by his grandparents and friends, it is easy to cause the child to be pampered and arrogant and become lawless. I have a friend's child who can barely be disciplined when he is at his grandparents' house, eats candy without restrictions, has to be fed by others, walks on someone's back, and cries when he is not satisfied. Not long ago, he grabbed a car at his grandparents' house and threw it on his mother's head, causing her mother to be injured. Even if his mother punished him appropriately, his grandparents still felt that it was just a child's behavior and did not interfere.
However, it is this accommodation and pampering that develops the child's bad habits. When talking about their children's grandparents, many friends will complain: "They love their children too much, they can't discipline them, and the children are spoiled!."In fact, many elderly people think that children are the cutest when they are young, and even if they cry, they are seen as cute by the elderly. However, they ignore the scientific guidance of education and miss the stage of the best education of children.
The best time to restrain a child is when they are young. Before children enter primary school, many habits and behavioral habits will be slowly formed, and this stage needs to be guided and paid attention to so that children can understand what to do and what not to do. The guidance and education of parents at this stage is particularly important.
Conclusion: When someone else's, we can laugh, boast, and leave, after all, it has nothing to do with ourselves. However, we must understand that educating children requires the patient guidance of parents, correcting bad behaviors, and cultivating independence and judgment. Only in this way can the child gradually grow into an excellent person.
Summary: Through this, I have a deeper reflection on the behavior of grandparents who overly pamper their children. warmth and warmth in the familyAffectionIt is touching, but over-spoiling can bring a series of adverse effects on a child's development. The best stage to restrain and educate children is in their early years, and the guidance and education of parents at this stage is particularly crucial. Only by guiding children correctly and cultivating good behavior habits and morals can we lay a good foundation for their future.