Plato said: ".Human nature will always be inclined to greed and selfishness, to avoid pain, to pursue pleasure without any reason”。Xunzi, an ancient thinker in China, also put forward"Sex is eviltheory. But is human nature really vulnerable?
Maybe it's because people lose faith in everything in this world after seeing things that destroy humanity, but,Where there is darkness, there is light, and we cannot ignore all moments of kindness and warmth. Darkness is just a foreshadowing for people to see the light.
In 2008, the occurrence of Wenchuan ** shattered the hearts of countless Chinese people, and at the same time, it also broke the heart of a simple and kind girl, whose name is Li Yingxia.
should be a husband and wife who share each other's joys and sorrows, but after experiencing **, all selfishness has surfaced
Paying the wrong heart is one of the most helpless things in the world. After thirteen years, perhaps in the dead of night, when she suddenly remembered what happened to her, Li Yingxia would feel sorry for her wrong heart.
The girl dropped out of school at the age of 14 and left her family to work alone. is in the prime of youth, but he has to carry the burden of life. Whether a person has a sense of responsibility does not depend on age, but on the responsibility of the person's heart
Although life has given Li Yingxia a lot of pressure, her dream has never disappeared. The ** dream from childhood to adulthood supports this sensible girl to take every step of the way.
Forced by reality, even if you have a dream, there is no way to get on the stage of your dreamscan only sing by the Dujiangyan River to earn some living expenses
In 2004, love fell on the girl. In Dujiangyan, Sichuan,A man was attracted by Li Yingxia, the touch of his eyes and the attraction of his soul, and the two fell in love.
In 2008, the two lovers entered the palace of marriage. Although life is ordinary, with each other guarding them, life has added a lot of color.
Li Yingxia lives in a rented house with her husband and family in Sichuan, although the house is rented, but her happiness is her own, and she thought that she would live comfortably like this for the rest of her life.
However, God has dealt a heavy blow to this familyThis incident also made the kind-hearted girl recognize the reality of human nature.
May 12, 2008, should have been an ordinary day, but the people of Dujiangyan waited for the devastating damage brought by nature.
8.The ** around level 0 suddenly struck, the house shook, and there were screams and frightened eyes everywhere. Li Yingxia escaped from the rental house with her familyLife is a family, and death must be together.
If you can survive, you will definitely protect your family with your life in the future
But the natural disaster was far more ruthless than people imagined, and Li Yingxia and her husband were killed. The incomparably heavy boulder weighed on the couple, and by the time the rescue team arrived, both of them were already weakAll that's left is the belief that I want to live
In the face of the rescue, Li Yingxia said loudly: ".Save my husband first”。How rich love is that a person only wants to keep his loved one safe when his life is at stake, but his own life doesn't matter.
The man was rescued, only slightly injuredBut the kind girl was paralyzed by the stones in her legs for too long, and the only solution was amputation
Girls who used to like to sing like that can stand by the river and sing to their heart's content, but in the days to come,Being able to stand on your own legs has become a distant thing
The most desperate thing is not the amputation of my legs, but the inWhen I was at my most vulnerable, the faith I once loved collapsed in an instant
In the year and a half that Li Yingxia was hospitalized, the man who made her abandon herself only came to the hospital twice. The first time was to come and say that he was going back to his hometown, and the second time was to send a divorce agreement
Faced with such a reality, anyone's heart will fall to the bottom. obviously said that he would stay together for the rest of his life, but he was abandoned because of his amputation。Moreover, this kind of thing happens in order to save the person who abandoned him.
During that time, Li Yingxia often wanted to end her life. In the face of a ruthless husband and legs with dozens of stitches, no matter how strong a person is, he will feel broken and powerless.
She even asked a friend to buy a blade, and was finally discovered by her family. The scolding of the head and face is the family's distress for this girl, even if it is scolding, it is also a distressing scolding.
After a long period of self-healing and inner reconstruction, the desperate girl slowly became strongerHis kindness will bring good luck one day, and a cold-blooded and ruthless person will definitely have his own retribution
Life still has to go on, and although there are ups and downs everywhere, this is the most real taste of life. After learning what happened to Li Yingxia, well-wishers from all over the world came to enlighten her and share their lives, giving desperate people a new motivationThe girl has not forgotten her ** dream either
In 2011, with the support of her friends, Li Yingxia participated"China Dream Show".When the audience saw a person wearing a prosthetic leg standing confidently on the stage**, everyone's hearts were touched.
Later, she also appeared in the "China's Got Talent" competition. The melodious singing voice and strong will conquered the audience and judgesAlthough the body is disabled, the light emitted by the person on the stage is extremely dazzling
Finally,Li Yingxia won the championship。More and more people know the story of what happened when **, and everyone feels angry and unfair, but the parties have looked down on theseLiving well is the most important thing you should do
Li Yingxia said
"Actually, now that I think about it, I don't hate him either. Everyone has their own difficulties and experiences. Maybe he was young and not mentally prepared to serve a disabled wife. ”In the face of such a sensible person, anyone will feel distressed. The man's departure made Li Yingxia learn to grow, and she became more and more self-reliant, and after letting go of her resentment, tooI learned to love myself more
Today, Li Yingxia has developed better and better, and winning the championship on the stage has added light to her life, and she has also participated in public welfare activitiesPeople who usher in a new life always want to bring their kindness and warmth to more people in need, the purpose of life is becoming clearer and clearer.
Nietzsche said: ".Extreme suffering is the ultimate liberator of the spirit, and it is only this pain that forces us to come to enlightenment
For the true meaning of life, it is nothing more than to live well with faith and kindness.
There are too many people who have lost confidence in life after seeing the hot and cold world, and even want to give up their lives. However, the heavens will favor those who want to live well.
No one knows what their fate will be tomorrow, and no one knows how many things will happen in the futureSince you can't be fully prepared, then tidy up your heart and learn to become a better version of yourself after being hit
Li Yingxia's story has given many people the courage to live well, and everything she has experienced is not a small bump, but the biggest challenge that fate has given her.
Even if you pay your heart wrongly and hurt yourself, the past has become a thing of the pastAs long as you live the rest of your life well, it will be in vain