When two people are together, women never think about what to insist on in this relationship, nor do they think about holding some hole cards, or even think about how to manage this relationship well, women don't think about anything, they don't know what they should insist on, and they are easy to indulge themselves, and they often lose themselves in indulgence in the end.
In the beginning, a woman may maintain personality independence, maintain economic independence, and get along with men for a long time, she will feel that it is a matter of course to rely on men for everything, and she will be used to asking for men, and ignore her insistence on personality independence and economic independence, relying on men for everything, counting on men for everything, and the result may make men feel bored, and the relationship between the two people will become estranged.
A smart woman, no matter what kind of man she falls in love with, will insist, because this is her confidence to defend her dignity, and it is precisely because of her insistence that she will often win the respect of men in the end. When the opposite sex gets along, women hold these "hole cards", and men will love more and more, do you know?
1.Independent personality, live your own life.
A woman can maintain an independent personality and will live for herself.
Women have their own thoughts, they will express their own opinions, they will not follow the crowd, they will not follow the crowd, and live according to the way most people live, which often seems "different".
The more different a woman is, the more "interesting" she will be, which often attracts men's attention and makes them think. When a woman can maintain an independent personality and live her own style, a woman will also control her own life and live according to her own wishes, and her life will be very exciting.
2.Take responsibility and take full responsibility for your own affairs.
In a relationship, most of the woman's pain comes mainly from the wrong attribution, and she is convinced that her attribution is correct, and finally obsesses with the reason why it happened, without thinking about how to solve the problem.
To be born as a human being is to have the responsibility to stand proudly in the world.
When a woman is able to take full responsibility for her own life, when she encounters something, she will reflect on herself and make a response to it, and the matter will pass. It's just that sometimes, women shirk the responsibility they should have taken on to others, always putting "this is his responsibility" on their lips, and not thinking about the actual situation at all, seeing that the other party did not let them get their wishes, they will have resentment towards the other party, and often blame the other party, as a result, not only did the matter not solve, but also made their emotions become depressed, fell into mental internal friction and could not extricate themselves, and even were swayed by ruminative thinking, and lived more and more anxious.
3.Maintain financial independence and manage your life with care.
In this world, many problems are caused by "lack of money", even if some things cannot be solved by "money", but "no money" may be even more difficult to solve.
Women should understand that the economic base determines the superstructure. Maintaining financial independence and keeping yourself away from the "lack of money" life allows women to manage their lives calmly.
Maybe it will be a little tiring to maintain financial independence, but insisting on working and supporting yourself will also make a woman's life fulfilling, and when a woman really cares about her own life, a woman's life will naturally become better and better.