In life, men are always unlucky, always have bad development, meet people they deal with, always find that the other party is not easy to get along with, and when they are ready to do something, there are not many people who support themselves, but there are many people who oppose them.
Sometimes, men want to do something, but they always get bad bad.
At this time, it is difficult for a man to complain and not seriously reflect on his own reasons. In fact, the reason for a man's bad luck is very realistic, have you reflected on it?
1.If you don't sow good causes, you will bear evil results.
In life, men don't know how to be kind to others, and always do things that harm others and benefit themselves, so naturally they will not have good popularity; Before a man is ready to do something, men do not prepare in advance, always fantasize about "hitting big luck" and relying on "good luck" to do things well, and the result often backfires.
If a man does not plant good causes, how can he reap good fruits?
If a man wants to transfer, he must know how to make good use of the "cause and effect", plant good causes, and reap good results.
2.I don't know how to cherish fate, and I'm too selfish.
If a man knows how to cherish fate, can empathize, and treat the people around him well, the man will often win the recognition of the society and the support of the people around him, and the man's life path will often go more and more smoothly.
If a man doesn't know how to cherish fate, is too selfish, and always does things that harm others and benefit himself, and men make too many enemies, the greater the resistance that men will encounter.
If a man wants to do something, there are no supporters around him, most of them are opponents, and his life path will naturally become narrower and narrower, how can men live their lives well? In the end, I often hit a wall and have a hard time.
3.Mental internal friction, swayed by ruminative thinking.
For what has happened, men are unwilling to face reality, always entangled in "why they encounter such a thing", instead of thinking about "how to solve this matter", men are always mentally exhausted, swayed by ruminative thinking, men often consume a lot of time and energy in the end, but also make their emotions become low, and the quality of life is greatly reduced.
A smart man, when he is mentally exhausted, will be aware, he will control his brain, will not let himself be swayed by ruminative thinking, he will find a way to deal with it, will not put himself in a passive position, the result will naturally be transferred, and his life path will be wider and wider.