Get together with all your friends and come back after the Lantern Festival.
should only care about playing, especially when there are so many children, my two babies belong to the "people come crazy", even if they don't eat, they can play until the moment when the power is zero.
After returning home, the seven-year-old brother said that he wanted to eat Xiduoduo, and the two-year-old Xiaobao's sister also shouted to eat when she heard Xibobo (whose pronunciation is not clear). It is estimated that the two little ones ate a lot of hot snacks and were thirsty.
After obtaining his father's permission, the elder brother and the younger sister each opened a bottle and ate it. My brother said, "My sister has already eaten a bottle this morning, and she can't eat it anymore." Because my mother said okay, my mother and I can only eat one bottle a day. ”
Poor brother, when he said this, everyone was busy with each other, and just missed it.
The helpless brother can only express himself with his own actions-
After heating up the Kitato, the elder brother drank half of his own Kitato first, and then poured half of his sister's into his own bottle, indicating that it was fair to drink one and a half bottles of one person today.
However, the father, who was dealing with things next to him, happened to see this scene and told Dabao very seriously that he must return the original Xiduoduo to Xiaobao.
Dabao was very aggrieved and said, my sister has already drunk a bottle today. The reason for this is that he is not able to express it clearly, and he does not know how to fight in a roundabout way.
Dad's authority was challenged, he was very angry, and said that he couldn't move Dabao, and stood up and said that he wanted to teach his brother a lesson.
Seeing such a scene, I really can't bear it, a small thing, making it so complicated. I couldn't refute my husband's education method on the spot, so I went upstairs first.
In less than a minute, I heard the cry of my brother downstairs. Maybe Dad also felt that his behavior might be a bit excessive, and after Dabao cried, he began to analyze the situation with him. I don't know exactly what he said, but I only vaguely heard him talking to his son.
About 10 minutes later, my brother came back to his room, looked at me, and cried aggrieved......
At this time, I can only hold him and let him release his emotions.
Dad wanted to see what was going on, so I looked at him and motioned for him to sit down.
Seeing my father's brother, the cry slowly came down.
It just so happened that my husband was also present, so I could ask my brother more fairly.
You feel very wronged, don't you? ”
The elder brother nodded affirmatively. Tears flowed down again.
I then asked, "Then can you accept Daddy's discipline on you?" ”
The elder brother looked at his father, shook his head vigorously, and said, "I can't accept it." ”
After hearing this, Dad didn't speak, and it could be seen that he was in a very bad mood now, but he was also trying to restrain his behavior, because Dad rarely hit his children.
I said, "Baby, you can file a complaint now, and we'll try to clear our minds about this matter again." Tell your mom and dad why your dad didn't handle this matter well? ”
My brother can now explain why more clearly. Then he disagreed with his father's education - he shouldn't be treated so fiercely.
I repeated my brother's explanation to make sure it was correct and to make sure my dad could hear it more clearly.
It is also thanks to the fact that I left the education scene just now and had more time to think about how to deal with the aftermath.
I said, "There is a classmate in your class, named Chenchen, he eats a lot of food, and he usually eats a little more than you, otherwise he won't be full, so do you think the teacher should give Chenchen more bread?" ”
No. Dabao replied.
I was a little surprised to hear this answer, because my brother has always been a gentle and willing child to share. Not sure if he can understand the question I just asked.
I then asked, "Why shouldn't it?" ”
Dabao didn't know how to answer.
I went on to say that if she was a kind teacher, she should have given it. So if you give it, can it show that the teacher loves Chenchen more?
Dabao fell into silence again......
I don't know if he understands it, but I told him for sure that the teacher doesn't favor him, but that the teacher treats him differently for different students.
Let's take a look at it again, in addition to Chenchen's ability to eat, he is also notoriously naughty in the garden, the teacher treats you like he does, in a preachy way, do you think he will listen? ”
No. Dabao said with conviction.
Yes, so the teacher usually treats Chenchen in a way that suits him, and he will be quiet. But the teacher never punished you, even though sometimes you were naughty and the teacher only said it verbally, and you immediately quieted down. So, do you think the teacher loves you more or that classmate? ”
I don't know. Dabao continued to ...... thoughtfully
You are also different from your sister, you are seven years old, and your sister is less than two years old. You can understand a lot of words, but your sister doesn't understand words, if we educate your sister in the same way as educating you, will it be useful? "I'm slowly getting down to business.
Useless. "My brother is slowly opening up his mind now.
Yes. You now know what rules are and what consequences are. My sister may understand a little bit, but she doesn't know how to abide by it and express it. Then let me ask you another question, do you think we love you or sister? ”
Dabao replied that both loved.
I looked firmly at my son and said, "Exactly. Both of you are your parents' favorite babies, and you use your way to tell your sister that she should follow the rules, which is to eat a bottle of Xiduoduo a day. If you want to break the rules, it's also to fight together. You love your sister very much, everything is shared equally with your sister, even the gifts sent by the kindergarten, you are reluctant to eat, and bring it back with your sister as it is. We see all this in our eyes and are pleased in our hearts.
You can also tell us that we'll take care of it. However, you didn't eat Kitato two days ago, and today you can drink three bottles. My sister didn't drink it the day before yesterday, so she made up for the amount the day before yesterday. So, you can make it up too.
Otherwise, it's like the teacher wants to punish Chenchen, but you punished Chenchen for the teacher, which seems to be a bit overstepping. ”
Dabao nodded, and the grievances on his face were replaced by a shy smile.
As for Dad, he may be trying to tell you this, but the way may be too much firepower, and you can't accept it. Oh dad (I look at my husband thiefly). Dad also wants you and your sister to be able to help each other and grow up, and his intentions are good, but you and your sister do the same. Keep one thing in mind: Mom and Dad are both reasonable and people who know their mistakes and can change them, and this matter is indeed a bit excessive, so you see, what do you need Dad to compensate for you? ”
Watching my husband's gloomy expression transform into a relaxed smile, I dare to say that. Maybe he already knew he was wrong.
Subsequently, the two fathers and sons looked at each other and smiled, and there was a sense of "meeting and smiling and smiling".
Sure enough, it was my brother who was well-known and took the initiative to shout, "Dad".
Dad also happily responded, "Son, come, Daddy hug." Does your butt still hurt? Sorry".
It doesn't hurt anymore. My brother said with a smile in his father's arms.
Finally, child, if you feel that anything is unfair or disagrees with you, you can file a "grievance" and let the "case" be re-examined. Be yourself in a gentle and powerful way without fear of power.