My name is Li Fengying, I am 48 years old, and I have experienced huge ups and downs in my life. If I had to describe it in one word, it would be "bumpy".
When I was a girl, I met my lifelong confidant, Li Jianguo, and we fell in love and got married, and gave birth to a daughter, Xiaofang. At one time we lived happily ever after. However, the good times did not last long, my husband passed away in an accident, and I raised my daughter alone. In order not to let my daughter suffer, I was single for many years, and it was not until my daughter graduated from college and started a family that I mustered up the courage and started my "twilight love".
I met an old gentleman who was 7 years older than me, Jack Ma, who had a cheerful personality and was very nice to me. With my daughter's encouragement, I decided to enter the palace of marriage with him. Unexpectedly, after marriage, he made a series of excessive demands, and I just wanted to divorce immediately!
After registering with Jack Ma, we moved to his home. Although the house is not big, it is cosy and tidyly furnished. I finally have something to rely on, and I am no longer as lonely as before.
On the first night, Ma Yun took my hand and said, "Fengying, let's discuss the future days." ”
My heart moved, and for some reason, I felt a faint sense of unease.
Ma Yun said: "First, I will manage our money, and I will give you 2,000 yuan to spend on your household belongings every month." ”
I frowned and said, "I have my own income, why should you take care of my money?" ”
Ma Yun explained: "I'm doing this for our good, so I can save the family property in the future." "I felt very uncomfortable and rejected him with a strong attitude.
Ay. Or on the issue of marriage, Ma Yun is unexpectedly traditional and conservative. was different from the plan he had brewed himself, which aroused his violent outburst: "Feng Ying, I tell you this, isn't it for the sake of our happy life!" ”
I was stubborn: "Money is in my own hands, that's my bottom line." ”
Ma Yun was furious and said viciously: "If you don't listen to me, how to live in the future is your business, don't come to me!" With that, he shook his hand back to the bedroom and slammed the door shut.
I stood alone in the dark living room, my heart in turmoil. I was tossing and turning on the hard couch and couldn't sleep.
That night, I had insomnia until dawn. Ma Yun also locked himself in his room all the time and didn't come out for a whole day.
In the evening, I plucked up the courage to knock on his door and said, "Husband, shall we sit down and have a good talk?" ”
Jack Ma came out reluctantly.
I softened and said, "I'll admit I overreacted. However, marriage is not a one-sided decision. We must engage in dialogue on an equal footing and compromise.
Before I finished speaking, Ma Yun became popular again: "Equality? I am 7 years older than you, I have more experience than you, and my level is higher than yours, so why should I be equal? Every word I say is for your own good, and it is all carefully thought out by me. ”
The way he spoke upbeat made me very unhappy. I said angrily: "Okay, you Ma Yun! You don't take me seriously, do you? It's done, from today onwards, let's sleep in separate rooms! ”
After I finished speaking, I went to the living room without looking back to pack my things for the night. Anyway, I won't live in his room if I die!
After this quarrel, Jack Ma and I had a cold war for many days. I decided to divorce and forget it, instead of talking like a cat and dog every day, it is better to be on my own.
On the day I was about to go through the formalities, Jack Ma suddenly found me with exhaustion and regret written on his face.
He whispered, "Feng Ying, I'm sorry, it's me who didn't understand you. I'm too self-righteous to put myself in your shoes. ”
I was surprised to see that his eyes were red and he seemed to be trying his best to keep the tears from falling.
I've had a hard time since I quarreled with you. I realized that I couldn't live alone without you. Is it okay to give me a chance to start over? ”
He sobbed and looked at me with a pleading look. My heart softened, and I couldn't hold back my tears.
After much negotiation, we finally reached a consensus.