"Oops, isn't this the old squad leader, hello hello! "I've met the old squad leader, haha, I'm glad to be there. ”
Everyone must have experienced such a class reunion scene. Toasting, making polite remarks, and asking where you are now have become a normal part of many class reunions.
In the endfromWhenStart,The class reunion has become such an unsmiling look?
In today's society, social networking and group groups have become an important platform for people to communicate, but some people remain silent in the group of classmates, do not speak or leave the group, and do not even participate in the party. What exactly is the reason?
Presumably, everyone has their own youthful memories about the time of studying, laughing and laughing when playing, and writing hard when working hardEveryone has youth, and everyone doesn't want to lose it, because it carries countless good memories for us.
When I grow up, those good memories are buried deep in the memory, and many people want to miss them, but they can only add to the sadness of "time is fleeting", and not many people are willing to mention the past again.
Therefore, there are nearly 100 people in a group of classmates, except for big festivals such as the New Year, some people send red envelopes before they come out to bubble, otherwise the red dots in the message have not been lit up a few times in a year.
If there's no one to talk to, why hasn't anyone left the group? Although the group of classmates seemed deserted, and not many people actively spoke, the members did not quit the group chatMainly because we all have precious memories of learning and growing up together. The classmates group is a platform for former classmates to gather, which is full of everyone's youthful memories, common experiences and good times.
Although everyone may be busy due to work, life, etc., and do not have time to participate in the active discussion in the group, no one leaves the group because they are not willing to lose this unforgettable memory.
This group chat is like a time capsule, sealing everyone's beautiful youthWhen you occasionally open this capsule and browse the **, topics and interactions of the past, you can evoke nostalgia and emotion for that time.
There is still a desire to preserve this link to the past, in the hope that at some point in the future, we can relive those good times. As a result, the group of classmates has become an emotional sustenance, a common memory bank, and a corner that can make people feel warm whenever and wherever they are.
Class reunions are also the only chance for former classmates to reunite again, but in today's society, how many class reunions can really get together?
Class reunions are an important way to maintain friendships, share the current situation of life, and reminisce about the good old days. However, as we get older, the pace of life accelerates, and the geographical dispersion increasesIt's getting harder and harder to organize a class reunion where everyone is gathered.
A lot of people's lives are getting hectic and busy, and attending class reunions in such situations can be seen as a burden because there is not enough time to attend such an event. And as the living environment becomes more and more complex, geographical distanceAlsoMakes it impractical to attend a party.
Over time, people's values and interests change, and some people may no longer see class reunions as meaningful activitiesThere may not be much in common when you get together, so you choose not to participate.
There are also people who have conflicts or misunderstandings with their classmates when they are students, and they may not be willing to face these problems and let go of them, so they choose not to attend the party.
Although some people choose not to attend class reunions, it doesn't mean that they don't value the friendship between their classmates. You may maintain your relationship with your classmates in other ways, such as socializing**, meeting in private, etc.
There are many reasons not to attend class reunions, and we should respect everyone's choices and understand their situation. Class reunions are just a tool to maintain friendship, and true friendship should go beyond formality and be reflected in caring for and supporting each other in daily life.
Everyone's youth is priceless, and youth is priceless because it can't be repeated. Every moment of youth is unique, and if you miss it, you can't get it back. We should cherish this time and seize every opportunity.
These memories not only make us feel warm and empowered, but also serve as a guiding beacon on our life path. The bits and pieces of the past are still fresh in our minds, and we should cherish them even more to make everyone's common memories even better.
People who don't speak, quit, or attend parties in their classmates can do so for a variety of reasons. Whether it's due to social anxiety, information overload, or social habits and values, this behavior can have an impact on social relationships.
We should respect everyone's choices and boundaries, while also paying attention to and understanding their needs and concerns. When it comes to building and maintaining social relationships, mutual understanding and respect are very important.