In fact, there is no such thing as empathy in the world, and if the needle does not prick others, they don't know how much it hurts.
It is only when a certain pain or dilemma directly affects us that we can truly understand the level of suffering it causes.
For example, if we have never experienced the pain of a certain disease, even if we feel compassion for the patient, we cannot truly understand the extent of the pain they are experiencing.
Don't think of yourself as a waste, if you are willing to struggle, you will be a character in ten years. Don't always complain that you have nothing, if you can be content, you will be happy all the time.
Don't underestimate your potential and worth.
Cherish the present moment and enjoy the small happiness in life, success takes time and effort.
Don't give up on yourself and don't lose faith in yourself, because as long as we are willing to put in the effort, it is possible to become an influential person in the future.
There are always songs that make us sad and make us cry. But in fact, it is not the songs themselves that make us cry, but the people hidden in the memories.
There's always a song or a memory that stirs me up.
Maybe the song is sad, but it's not the song itself that makes me cry, but the nostalgic vague figure in that memory evoked by the familiar song.
That's our loved ones, friends, lovers, or former selves.
I've blown the coldest wind, drunk the strongest wine, tasted the pain of life, but none of them are as silent as yours.
No matter how many times I call, you always turn a deaf ear and are indifferent.
I was always ignored and neglected by you, and I didn't give us the slightest chance to communicate.
Compared to the most bitter cold wind, the fierce spicy wine, and the painful taste, your indifference makes people so desperate.
Now the only tacit understanding we have is to lie quietly in each other's friend lists, ignore them, and live separately.
In the past, our chemistry was built through frequent communication, interaction, and care through chat apps.
However, as we have each experienced a lot and grown a lot, we have become more or less estranged.
We no longer engage in substantive communication and care, but are each busy with our own lives.
When I grew up, I realized that sometimes when you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others because you expose the truth. So if you want to live a smooth life, please stay awake at all times.
Telling the truth is not always popular because we reveal facts that are not popular with people, such as revealing someone's secrets or pointing out someone's mistakes.
So it's also important to learn to be silent about some topics.
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