For you to tell a romantic story, love is an essential topic, but not all love stories have a happy ending. In the world of relationships, sometimes it is really difficult to tell whether the other person really loves you, especially in a relationship, it is extremely difficult but necessary to know whether the other person loves you.
Whether a man really loves you or not can be identified from 8 manifestations.
1.Lack of communication
A man who truly loves you will want to share with you his thoughts, feelings, and the bits and pieces of his daily life. If he's often reticent to you, reluctant to engage in deep conversations, and makes you feel like you're living with a stranger, it could be a sign that he doesn't love you enough.
For example, my neighbors Wang Ming and Liu Hua are an enviable couple, they are very busy, Wang Ming often works overtime, and Liu Hua is also busy with his own projects. Everyone felt that they were being ignored in the relationship, and Liu Hua hoped that Wang Ming could spend more time with her, but she didn't express it directly, just expecting Wang Ming to notice. And Wang Ming, completely unaware of Liu Hua's dissatisfaction and expectations, still arranges his time according to his own schedule, thinking that there is no problem with such a relationship model.
When the dissatisfaction accumulated, the relationship between the two people gradually reached an impasse. In fact, it is all a lack of communication, which can lead to estrangement and conflict in the relationship.
2.Indifferent to your needs
Loving someone means caring for the needs and desires of the other person. If a man always ignores your needs, doesn't care about your feelings, or turns a deaf ear when you need support, it's a sign that he doesn't have you in mind. For example, men often ignore women's feelings and needs. The woman may want the two to spend time together, but the man always excuses himself by working overtime. For the attention and communication that the woman wants, she is always indifferent.
3.Lack of respect
Respect is one of the most essential elements of a relationship. If he constantly belittles you, criticizes you, doesn't care about your opinions and decisions, or even embarrasses you in public, these are all telltale signs that he doesn't respect you and doesn't love you.
I remember that at a gathering of friends, a man suddenly sneered and openly questioned the woman's taste in dress, saying that she "why is she always so tasteless", which made the eyes of the audience focus on her. The woman looked embarrassed, lowered her head and was silent.
This is obviously the man's disrespect, which not only embarrasses the woman in public, but also hurts her self-esteem.
4.Reluctance to make commitments
If a man always avoids discussing the future or shows obvious discomfort and anxiety when you talk about your future plans, it could mean that he doesn't intend to stay with you for long. His reluctance to commit is evidence of his lack of seriousness and commitment to the relationship.
If a couple of lovers have been dating for a while, the relationship gradually stabilizes. But whenever the woman proposes to go further, such as getting married or planning for the future together, the man always finds excuses to prevaricate, saying that he is not ready, that he is too busy with work, or that the financial situation does not allow it.
The woman's sense of insecurity and uncertainty will gradually grow, and it is a question whether such a relationship can be sustained by a man who is afraid to make any promises about their future.
5.Frequently dishonest
Trust is very important in a healthy relationship. If he always doesn't keep his word, as small as being late and forgetting, or as big as betraying and deceiving, it not only erodes trust, but also shows that he is not serious enough about this relationship and does not love you enough.
If a relationship has already been confirmed. The man has broken his trust with the woman many times, especially promising the dream that the woman wants to complete the most, but the man is always untrustworthy, which makes people excited in vain, and he will no longer have hope if he is disappointed.
And the man's excuse is sometimes simply unreasonable, such as he played games with his friends late the night before, was too tired to sleep, and couldn't go, how can such a relationship make the woman have a sense of trust.
6.Avoid close contact with you
Intimacy is not just about physical contact, but also about connecting and sharing emotionally. If he avoids deep emotional communication with you, is unwilling to share his feelings or listen to you, then there is a lack of deep connection between him and you.
Xiao Li and Chen Huafeng are a pair of lovers. Xiao Li has been feeling a lot of pressure lately, and whenever she tries to share his thoughts with Chen Huafeng, he always seems impatient, frequently looking at his phone, and is not interested in Xiao Li's feelings. Xiao Li also tried to listen to him, hoping to establish a deeper communication, but he always avoided talking about it, and was never willing to share his personal experiences or thoughts and feelings. This rupture of communication made Xiao Li feel very lonely and helpless, and gradually fell into silence, no longer trying to open his heart.
7.Not interested in your life
True love is inclusive of all, including the other person's friends, hobbies, jobs, and dreams. If he is indifferent to your personal life, does not support your dreams, or even hinders your development, then his love may just be selfish and possessive.
A couple, the woman loves painting and often shares her works and creative experience with the man. However, the man is not interested in this, and often uses the excuse that he is busy with work, and is noncommittal to the woman's sharing, and sometimes even seems impatient. The woman's enthusiasm was not reciprocated, and she felt very lost. She longs to share the bits and pieces of her life with the man, but the man is clearly unwilling to invest the same passion. This made her question whether the relationship between the two was really solid, and it was sad.
8.Concealment of relationships
If a man truly loves you, he will proudly let the world know about your relationship. If he always avoids public relationships with you, is reluctant to be seen together in social situations, or hides your presence from the outside world, it may be because he doesn't take the relationship very seriously, or has other ulterior motives.
If a man really loves you, he must not introduce you to everyone around him, if he is evasive, or even has something to hide from you, it means that his love is not strong.
It can be painful to recognize that a man doesn't love you, but it also opens new doors for you. When you are brave enough to face reality, you can free yourself and find someone who is truly worthy of your love and love.
Remember, loving yourself is the beginning of all love. Don't let the wrong people get in the way of your chance of meeting someone who truly loves you.