Observing the people around you, you have the same background and the same starting point, but after the age of fifty, your life is very different. It seems to be a lack of money, but it is actually the result of one's own habits, especially the following five characteristics. For the sake of happiness, changes must be made. Let's take a look.
First of all, the character is straightforward. This type of person is kind-hearted, but he speaks straightforwardly and inadvertently hurts people. They need to learn to express themselves subtly and not deliberately hurt others. After all, the mouth can shape your own image, so why bother to talk about yourself ugly? I have a young colleague who has been well educated and knows how to please others first, then speak of his own, and finally praise him at the right time. Such communication skills have allowed him to flourish in his career.
Second, there is a lack of observation. In the workplace, discerning people tend to be more popular, especially in state-owned enterprises. Those who are unwilling to approach the leader, who do not see through the leadership's intentions, and who think they are superior to others, are often marginalized. I know a small boss who runs a home improvement business and every time he talks about drawings with clients, he prepares a few breakfasts in the morning, which flatters everyone present. Details determine success or failure, and observation is the key to success.
Finally, there is a lack of human sophistication.
To live in the moment, relationships are the most crucial. Without skill, the chances of success are slim, and at the same time, the family business will face difficulties.
My current job is multifaceted, and I've found that successful people don't necessarily have to be highly skilled or versatile, but they certainly know how to behave in the world. This skill needs to be learned by reading books, and reading more books on a daily basis can make a qualitative breakthrough in this area.
Fourth, I don't like to delve into myself. Self-reflection is a quick path to success. The other day I shared my experience of keeping a diary, and in this way, I found the key to failure and success. Through reflection and tracing the root cause of the problem, we can improve our own ability and then improve our ability to make money.
If you are not interested in delving into yourself, life will become blurry and the frustrations and hardships experienced will be meaningless. Lack of ability to summarize and study oneself in depth, whether at work or at home, will make the wrong choice.
Fifth, the tolerance for setbacks is relatively low. Success is the accumulation of failures, and if you can't afford to fail, it will be difficult to make money. When I was reading "The Tang Dynasty", I saw Wu Zhaoyi and the emperor visiting the eldest grandson Wuji's house, with the purpose of proposing that Wu Zhaoyi become the queen. Despite being vetoed by the eldest grandson Wuji, Wu Zhaoyi was not defeated by reality, but found another path of strategy, which is exactly how the strong react in the face of setbacks.
It's normal for everyone to experience setbacks at work and at home. However, people who give up when they encounter setbacks are not okay with this mentality. They are like the kind of people who fall off a leaf and lie down, and it is difficult to stick to one thing with such a mentality, and it is difficult to make money.
By the time we reach the age of 50, we may be retired, but we still need to give guidance and support in our children's work. Only in this way will the child be able to surpass himself and reach the end of happiness. Do you think that's a good idea?