What are the problems in home education?
Family education, this topic can be big or small, to put it bigger, it is related to the future of the country and the destiny of the nation; To put it mildly, it is the daily life of each of our families and parents how to fight wits and courage with their children. Now, let's talk about the "pits" in this family education, and see if your family has also been recruited? Don't worry, the humorous and witty style is guaranteed to let you appreciate the true meaning of home education in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.
We Chinese parents generally have one"I hope that my son will become a dragon, and I hope that my daughter will become a phoenix".complex. Before the children are born, they have already begun to plan their life blueprints. Learn piano, learn Olympiad mathematics, learn programming ......In short, other people's children can, and our children must also be able to do it, and they have to be better than them. However, these high expectations often overwhelm the child, or even produce itRebellious mentality。You must know that every child has their own shining point, and the twisted melon is not sweet, we must learn to respect the child's personality and interests, and teaching them according to their aptitude is the right way.
When it comes to education methods, some parents believe in it"Strict teachers produce high apprentices".The concept of strict discipline of children, and even the use of corporal punishment brutal means. They think that children can't fight and can't succeed, and they have to let them know that they are powerful. However, this wrong way of educating is often counterproductive and produces childrenFear, low self-esteem and other bad psychology。In fact, family education should be based on love, with warmth and care to guide children's growth. Of course, this does not mean that laissez-faire is still necessary, and proper rules and restraints are still necessary. The key is to find a balance so that children can grow up healthy in love and rules.
In today's society, scores seem to be the only measure of whether a child is good or not. In order to let their children get good results, parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to sign up for various cram schools and specialty classes. However, this one-sided evaluation often ignores other strengths and potentials of children, leading them to prematurelyLoss of interest and enthusiasm for learning。In fact, children's growth is multifaceted, in addition to academic performance, there are also moral character, social skills, innovative spirit and other aspects that need to be cultivated. Therefore, parents should establish comprehensive evaluation criteria and pay attention to the all-round development of their children.
Family education,Every word and deed of parentswill have a profound impact on children. However, some parents ignore their own words and deeds when educating their children. While they demand that their children obey the rules and be civilized and polite, they themselves are setting a bad example. You know, teaching by example is more important than teaching! In order for children to become good people, parents must first set a good example themselves. Traditional culture education
Today's children, they are really afraid of falling in their hands and melting in their mouths. Parents often do it to their children in order to make them suffer less and take fewer detoursOverprotective。However, this overprotection often weakens a child's independence and autonomy, leaving them dependent and lacking problem-solving skills. In fact, parents should learn to let their children try and experience the ups and downs of life. Only then can they truly grow and become independent.
Communication is a vital part of family education. However, some parents tend to communicate with their childrenUse a commanding, accusatory tone, causing the child to produceResistance and rebellion。In the long run, the parent-child relationship will naturally become strained. In fact, parents should learn to communicate with their children in an equal and respectful manner, and listen to their thoughts and feelings. Only in this way can a good parent-child relationship be established and the smooth progress of family education can be promoted.
Home education, what a technical job! If you want to educate your children well, you have to work hard to think about it and put it into practice. The above mentioned problems are all "pits" that we are easy to step on in family education. But don't worry, as long as we love, teach, and communicate with our hearts, I believe that every child can grow up healthy and happy!