Entering marriage is a thing to look forward to for all lovers who are in love. But often, marriage is not as many couples imagine, only romantic and beautiful, but full of hardships and unbearable. There has never been a flight that does not defy gravity, and there has never been the pleasure of not bearing pain. The beauty of marriage lies in the fact that after surviving the ordinary and trivial, you can accompany each other through a lifetime. But not everyone can hold hands to get to the end of the day, and for various reasons, many couples choose to separate halfway. It doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong, it doesn't matter if it's love, everyone has their own reasons, and others can't judge. But not all separations can continue to run towards happiness, and after divorce, these three types of people tend to regret it. 
People who have weak feelings regret it even more
This kind of life is cold, and I always feel that the next person I meet will be my spiritual partner. The result of the beginning and the end of the abandonment is that one is not satisfied, the next one is not satisfied, and everyone is not satisfied. In fact, there will never be a perfect partner in this world, only perfect companionship。Looking back, the partner who was abandoned by himself also endured a lot of his shortcomings before he was willing to always accompany him to taste the hardships of life. Zhang Ailing said: "I married a red rose, and the red one became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall; married a white rose, and the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes. "The long-term search and search continue to wear down the confidence in love, and over time, even the ability to love people can no longer be loved. Yes, when the passion in love fades, who is not an ordinary person, whose life is not a piece of chicken feathers. When this kind of person finally realizes what the other party has done for him, he wants to go back but it is no longer possible. They have lost not only their lovers, but also the warm part of their humanity. The party who has had a bad time regrets it even more
There used to be a popular saying on the Internet: "Being together is to find happiness, and so is separation." Influenced by this sentence, many people resolutely broke up for the so-called happy life in their minds, as if being together was the origin of all misfortune. After separation, I found that not only could I not even touch the shadow of happiness, but my life was not as good as before. 
This kind of person will never understand: it is never the other party who makes the marriage unhappy, but the self who is not angry in the marriage. If you lose yourself in marriage, stop moving, can't grow, and leave that sheltered home, how can you live a good life? But no one will wait for you in the same place, once you turn around, there is no possibility of turning back, and the happiness you once had is gone. Material deprivation is the most exhausting of people's will, and physical torture is the most devastating of people's spirit. When life doesn't go as well as it used to be, we miss the time when it was okay. But with the passing of a good life, there is also a self that can never be recovered. 03People who make mistakes regret it more
Desire is instinct, but love is restraint. But even if some people are in marriage, they don't know how to cherish it, but blindly indulge their desires. Cheating, violent, impatient, under the control of various desires, they first make mistakes in marriage and then leave. But this kind of person is often not aware of his own problems, but feels that leaving is insignificant, and it is a big deal to find another one. But how can desires that have been indulged be easily filled? There is a term in psychology called "desire threshold", which refers to the threshold at which a person can achieve happiness. As the resistance and tolerance to satisfying desires become stronger and stronger, the intensity of stimulation from the outside world is also increasing rapidly! In other words, such people will do everything to satisfy their desires. Desires are insatiable, there are no desires in the world that can be satisfied, and there is no partner in marriage that can be satisfied. No matter what makes a mistake, in the next marriage, this kind of person will always find something that dissatisfies him. This kind of person will eventually be eaten by desire, and when their marriage and life are a mess, they will also lose their simple and happy self. 
When we enter the palace of marriage, we all hope to be happy. But ordinary and ordinary days can defeat many passions and make people in marriage have the idea of divorce. But it wasn't until many years after we were separated, when we understood the true meaning of life, that we regretted not doing it at the beginning. Life is not so beautiful, it is marriage that gives us all a haven from the wind. However, that happy time can never be returned. May we all be content and happy, and keep the beauty of marriage in a tender time.
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