The Tang Dynasty poet Bai Juyi has a poem in "Spring Trip to Qiantang Lake": "The flowers are gradually charming to the eyes, and the shallow grass can have no horseshoe." Different people have different understandings, different people, standing from different angles, will also have different perceptions, the so-called "poisonous flowers are the most beautiful, spirits are the most fragrant." "It's not unreasonable, that's my understanding.
Yes, you won't understand a lot of truths in life if you don't experience them, "When the book is used, you don't hate it, and you don't know how difficult it is." "Because, there are many things that take time to sharpen when you see the essence of them. I remember when I was young, probably when I was just admitted to the county town of Chengguan from a rural school, I was always a good student at the top of my class when I was in elementary school and junior high school, but from the countryside to the city, I was gradually confused by the neon of the city and its brilliance. Especially when I was just a freshman in high school, the class held a gala, which suddenly made me see the dwarf gap between rural children and urban children, and since then, my heart has begun to change, I have become less focused on learning, I have become fond of dressing up, loving comparison, and loving vanity, and as a result, I have paid a heavy price for repeating my studies for many years.
can perform, have a literary temperament, can speak, can even sing and dance, can host the show, of course it is good, if you have talent in this area, then I congratulate you, you will definitely be very popular. However, if you don't have this specialty, don't be overwhelmed by this aspect of the trapping, become inferior, or even despise yourself, that is really unnecessary, because the world is diverse, and the path to success is also diverse, and if you are not good in this area, it does not mean that you are not good in that area.
Moreover, people with artistic talent may not be able to succeed, and if they don't grasp it well, this talent may miss your life, make you proud, and empty your eyes, and the result is that your talent will become a burden for your life; Besides, there are talented people in the country, and your little literary and artistic talent will be overtaken by latecomers and replaced by newcomers, I have seen many colleagues with literary and artistic talents, yesterday was still beautiful, and today no one cares, which is really pitiful.
Of course, it doesn't mean that it's a bad thing that you have a certain talent, it depends on how you look at your talent, look at it correctly and use it well, which can make your life like a tiger with wings, and even let your life go all the way from now on, all the way to the green light; If you don't use it well, it may become a burden in your life, so that you can't hold your head up, you can't breathe, or let you look at yourself wrongly and miss your life, the so-called "smart is mistaken by smart".
If you have a certain talent, as long as you can look at it correctly and make good use of it, you are lucky, and you will meet a noble person who appreciates you, he will look down on you and love you, then your life may be open. But you must remember that you are gifted, and when you meet some illiterate leaders, you may suffer some setbacks, because there are all leaders in this world, and there are leaders with temperament, and you can write, and he will think that you are a nerd, and this kind of leader is actually not interested in your point at all, and they value more to be able to speak, shoot and blow, and please subordinates who will come. You have literary talent, and he will think that you are flashy, maybe what he lacks is this, he feels inferior to you when he gets along with you, and he may look at you with a ** psychology.
Writing here, I want to sincerely reveal my heart, to be honest, I also look up to people with literary and artistic talents, and love a point. Especially those who can sing, dance, speak, and host are even more admired, because such people can easily become leaders, or even big leaders. The reason why these people can become great people is mainly because of their ability, their thoughts, and their image, temperament, and special talents when they go to the stage. I have seen a general secretary of the United States leading a group of people to visit the United States, that demeanor, temperament, eloquence, ability, at a glance, is an outstanding politician, a person standing on the stage, a person representing the image of the country, a great man who leads the group.
Be kind to yourself, friends, if you have a talent in some way, it doesn't matter, don't be like the ancients said, "Flowers gradually become charming, and Asakusa can have no horseshoe."