In the hit drama "The Rest of Your Life, Please Advise Me", Gao Xi and Gu Wei have been classmates and colleagues and partners for many years, and they have a tacit understanding between them, and both of them are very good doctors, if there is no Lin Zhixiao's appearance, she and Gu Wei are still the golden boys and girls in the hospital.
As the plot progressed, Gao Xi's keen judgment saw that Gu Wei fell in love with Lin Zhixiao, which made her feel a sense of urgency. In order to be able to preemptively review Wei, she did something beyond the boundary, and the friendship level went down in parallel.
This reminds me of what teacher Liu Run said:
"People generally have clear ownership of objects, but time, privacy, and control ......The ownership of this intangible thing is unclear to many people. ”
Gao Xi's preconceived and arrogant Gu Wei's closest people, especially under the praise and acquiescence of Gu Wei's parents, naturally because of his girlfriend's self-proclaim, repeatedly tested and touched Gu Wei's boundaries, and the direct reason was the sense of boundary.
Gao Xi saw Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao talking in the corridor, she keenly noticed the subtle change in Gu Wei's attitude towards Lin Zhixiao, Gu Wei and her classmates and colleagues for many years, really had nothing to say, but she never found out that Gu Wei cared about any patient's family, only Lin Zhixiao.
In order to express his gratitude, Lin Zhixiao gave Gao Xi the ticket fee for the concert, but Gao Xun was worried that Lin Zhixiao would touch Gu Wei, and clearly proposed that he could transfer the ticket fee to Gu Wei. Before leaving, he didn't forget to remind Lin Zhixiao that the time of the concert also conflicted with the time of the seminar, and he might not be able to go, so he changed his direction and informed Lin Zhixiao that Gu Wei would not be able to go either.
When Gao Xi transferred the ticket fee to Gu Wei, he paid attention to the seminar to reduce the ticket fee, and first informed Gu Wei that the seminar was a lot of authority and colleagues, which was a good opportunity to communicate and learn.
As for the ticket fee for the concert, he said lightly, the patient's family sent it, and there was nothing to say that it was given by Lin Zhixiao, it can be seen that Gao Xun was careful here, she was unwilling to give Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao a chance to get along, and at the same time, Teacher Lin was also discharged from the hospital, in case Lin Zhixiao had contact with Gu Wei in the future.
In the later plots, we can see that in order to prevent Lin Zhixiao from getting along with Gu Wei, Gao Xi moved away from Gu Wei's parents at a critical juncture to help her.
Gu Wei did not go to participate in the seminar, but went to Lin Zhixiao's report performance. After the performance, Gu Wei sent Lin Zhixiao home, but Gao Xi appeared at Gu Wei's house alone to have dinner with his parents.
What is this operation? Even if other people's parents like you very much, it seems that you are a daughter-in-law, this kind of independent practice of going to someone else's house to eat is not a bit too immediate.
Naturally, Gao Xi knew Gu Wei's parents very well, she knew very well what Gu Wei's parents cared about Gu Wei, and pretended to be very worried and said that Gu Wei had been a little distracted recently, and he didn't go to the seminar, but ran to watch a concert, which was invited by a patient's family.
Gao Xi's words naturally touched the nerves of Gu Wei's parents, and later I saw Gu Wei being called home by his parents to talk. The natural content of the conversation is to let Gu Wei pay attention to distance himself from the patient's relatives and start a family as soon as possible.
The most excessive area in Gao Xi, I think, is to open Gu Wei's email without authorization. When the real estate agent sent the rental contract to Gu Wei, it happened that Gao Xi came to Gu Wei, and Gu Wei was not in the company's office.
As the old saying goes, Gao Xun ** comes with confidence, how can you casually read other people's emails without the permission of others. This kind of behavior of not treating oneself as an outsider and infringing on the privacy of others at will does make others feel offended.
At this time, Gao Xi or like before, moved away from Gu Wei's parents, of course, also contributed ideas, colluded with real estate agents, took out his house and subleased it to Gu Wei, on the one hand, to achieve Gu Wei's intention to move out of the house, on the other hand, to meet Gu Wei's parents' supervision of Gu Wei, this naturally has a little selfishness, that is, to create a space to coexist with Gu Wei and prevent contact with Lin Zhixiao.
But people are not as good as heaven, when Gu Wei was looking at the house, he saw Vice Dean Gao's sign and saw this routine. Gu Wei didn't rent the house, which made Gao Xi's plan fall through.
In fact, when things reached this point, Gao Xi should have stopped, but she was not timid, and she did not get Gu Wei's clear refusal, so she pretended to be confused again.
"For the rest of your life, please advise".Adapted from Jinjiang Literature City's popular value writer, Berlin stonemasonNamesake **。**After the episode was first listed, due to the down-to-earth relationship between the protagonistsSweet love daily life, caused a strong response from the major **, and the current sales volume exceeds 60 booksRanked first on the list of recommended books.
This ** is adoptedDiary style,From the perspective of the heroine, record what she hears and sees, real experiences and experiences. Carefully carry out her and the male protagonist Gu Wei from the doctorMeet, know, and fall in love with each other to grow old together, which naturally causes love and marriageA beautiful yearning.
This is a very warm ** that people have read, plain and simple, but yetIt's addictive, and there's a kind of touching heartpower.
The short story is written very really, especially the operation plan and the later **plan after the heroine's father is sick and hospitalized, and then from the maintenance plan plan after discharge. It feels like what is happening around us, and it is very warm to us.
It is unlikely that everyone will have smooth sailing in their relationship, and Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao have been right from beginning to end in this relationship, maintaining respect and sincerity for each other.
I think that's what feelings are meant to be.
In reality, the separation of lovers is often in the run-in period and fragmentation day after dayDiscouraged and cold-hearted。Love without respect and sincerity is like a bowl of half-cooked rice, food hurts the body, food has no meat
Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei gradually became entangled in the relationship between a doctor and a patient's family, it was simpleMeet the right person at the right time.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao are ordinary, work, falling in love, getting married, every day over and over again, trivial housework. They are just like us, in ordinary daysFollow the rulesThe earth is alive.
They are all good people who express their feelings, but their feelings are appropriate. Because they think about each other, love each other deeply but are not spoiled, and they are managing this relationship with their hearts.
The same is true of the protagonists in the book, who have also had misunderstandings and arguments with each other. But they all know how to be themselves first, and strive to become a suitable other half in love, they understand and accommodate each other, and they live happily together.
There are so many things in this world that you need to figure out that if you choose something, you have to give up something. A good life is better than looking back on the past and seeing one step at a time, and looking forward to the future and seeing one goal after another.
Although this book is a modern romance book, it writes the true appearance of feelings.
Please advise us for the rest of your life" conveys to us a kind of love that is still full of affection and long-term flow, although it is plain. It's not that this is the only kind of feeling, but this kind of feeling is enough to move me very much.
This bookIt contains many of my views and expectations on love and marriage, after reading it, I actually have an envious heart and strongly ask the sistersGet your hands on this book!
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