Introduction: Spring Festival New Year's greetings, these people try not to go, as a person who has come over, it is a good point!
During the Chinese New Year, in addition to eating delicious food, I also have to go to other people's houses to pay New Year's greetings, and some will stay there and eat delicious food at his house. This is one thing that many people like to do. But at the same time, there are also some people who don't like to go to the New Year, not because they don't want to pay New Year's greetings. Rather, when we go there, we will become uncomfortable, and the time will be short, which will make our mood bad for a while; After a long time, our mood will be bad for a while.
Today, why write this article? Because, I believe, there is an energy field between people. Just like some people, we are with him, the whole person is relaxed and happy, the mood is comfortable, the whole body is comfortable, this is a positive energy field. And some people, when we hear his name, our hearts have begun to resist, let alone meet him, as long as we stay with him for a minute, it is a kind of torment, this is a negative energy field. Have you ever met such a person in your life? And it's some, when it comes to the New Year, we have to go to the family, such a family?
In fact, life is short, we should guard our energy and our mood! Don't let yourself, because of others, fall into endless mental exhaustion. Our energy is limited, and we should make every day positive, peaceful, and beautiful! If, when it comes to the Chinese New Year, we meet such a person, we don't want to go, because there is really no need to go, let's see what it is like.
1. When you are poor, you look down on you, and when you are rich, you beg your family.
This kind of person is among my relatives. At that time, I had just graduated from college, I hadn't found a good job, I was penniless, and I had to go again during the New Year's holidays, and when I went, he looked down on me, saying that my school was not as good as his daughter, and my work was not as good as his daughter, etc., with a look of despisis and a proud demeanor. Later, my husband and I, through our own efforts, became better than his family, and he began to say good things to me and not say bad things. Like this, I really don't want to contact my relatives anymore when I use them first, and when I don't use them, I don't want to contact them anymore. Just because of the outbreak of the epidemic, I was not allowed to leave my relatives during the New Year's holidays, and now I haven't been to his house for 3 consecutive years. This year, I don't plan to go either. I don't want to let my mood be depressed because of a person who doesn't have the same way. In the past, I had to go because of my feelings; Now I just want to respect my heart and do what I love!
2. Don't go to jealous people's homes.
The relationship between people, if it is like clear water, it will be so clear at first sight. However, in real life, it is often the interpersonal relationship that is the most complicated. As you grow older, you will always meet some people who think you are poor, afraid that you are rich, and wish you were down quickly. There are two kinds of this kind of person, one is his jealousy, which can be seen by us at a glance. This kind of is okay, when we interact with him, we just need to be cautious and pay attention to our words and deeds. The most feared is the other kind, this kind of person is moody, scheming, and has a city. often boast about you and say nice things to you. But behind the scenes, it's another set, really saying one thing and doing another.
3. Don't go to people with poor character.
The Tao Te Ching says, "A gentleman carries things with virtue." When we encounter people like the following, these types of people with bad character, we must pay attention. First, he is usually addicted to gambling and loves to beat and scold his parents and children's daughters-in-law. Second, he deliberately does not repay the borrowed money, and likes to procrastinate. Third, love takes advantage of it, and you can't lose anything. Fourth, I usually love petty theft. These types of people are often the most affectionate, selfish, and thick-skinned. If you encounter it, if you really can't hide from it, stay away!
New Year, every year, every year. Protect our mood, because a beautiful mood can really make ourselves better, more beautiful, and more beneficial to the body and mind!