Today, we will talk about the twists and turns in life and coping through the movie "Thirty Thousand Miles of Chang'an". In this film, we witness the ups and downs of Li Bai's life, and also see the deep friendship between him and his friend Gao Shi. And in this, what psychological mysteries can we excavate?
1.Facing setbacks: Li Bai's self-adjustment.
Li Bai grew up in a wealthy family, but he was unable to participate in the scientific expedition due to identity problems, and this setback is not so easy for anyone to accept. But how did Li Bai face it? He chose to self-promote, and although the process did not go well, he was extremely quick to drain his emotions and did not indulge in frustration for a long time. From a psychological point of view, this is a very effective form of self-adjustment. In the face of setbacks, we don't have to blame ourselves too much or dwell on them, but learn to accept them and find new ways out.
2.The Psychology of Interpersonal Communication: Li Bai's Friendship with Gao Shi.
Li Bai's friendship with Gao Shi is a highlight in the film. The two have very different personalities, but they can become best friends precisely because they understand the psychology of interpersonal communication. Li Bai has a bold personality and is not informal, while Gao Shi is steady and down-to-earth. There is no jealousy and comparison between them, only mutual appreciation and support. This is also the attitude we should learn in interpersonal communication. Appreciating the strengths of others and tolerating the shortcomings of others is the only way to have a long-lasting relationship.
3.Counseling Advice: How to Deal with the Twists and Turns in Life?
After watching the movie, we must not only sigh at Li Bai's life experience, but also draw wisdom from it to guide our life. In the face of twists and turns and setbacks, we can learn from Li Bai's self-adjustment method: accept reality, find a new way out, and maintain an optimistic attitude. At the same time, in interpersonal communication, we can also learn the friendship between Li Bai and Gao Shi: sincerity, appreciation and tolerance. Remember, no man is an island, and we need the support and help of others. When you encounter difficulties, you may wish to seek help from friends and family, or seek guidance from a professional counselor. They will help us understand ourselves better and find solutions to our problems.
"Thirty Thousand Miles of Chang'an" is not only a film that shows the style of the Tang Dynasty, but also a work that contains the wisdom of life and psychological knowledge. I hope that through today's sharing, you can get inspiration and help from it. See you next time!