As they get older, many seniors choose to remarry and find a new partner to spend the rest of their lives with. However, for these seniors, the first ** is undoubtedly a special experience.
In this article, we will go through the real stories of four people who have passed by, and the feelings and mental journeys of the elderly when they remarry for the first time.
First place: Aunt Li, 65 years old
Aunt Li and her remarried husband are both retired teachers. They met at an elderly event, and after half a year of getting along, they decided to enter the palace of marriage. For the first time, Aunt Li said: "I was a little nervous and embarrassed at the beginning, after all, we are no longer young people. But when we're actually together, it's a really nice feeling. We cherish each other and take care of each other, and that tacit understanding and warmth are something that we can't experience when we were young. ”
Second place: Uncle Zhang, 70 years old
Uncle Zhang is a retired worker, and his remarried wife is a retired doctor. They were both widowed and remarried. For the first time, Uncle Zhang said frankly: "I was really uncomfortable at first, after all, I was old and my body was not as good as before. But slowly, we found that it was the companionship and care of each other that mattered. We are considerate of each other, explore what works for us together, and enjoy each other's company. ”
Third place: Mr. Wang, 68 years old
Mr. Wang is a retired cadre and his remarried wife is a retired teacher. They were happily married. Talking about the first **, Mr. Wang said: "We all cherish each other, and that ** is more like a ritual that brings us really together." It's a little uncomfortable, but it's really nice to feel like you're relying on each other and caring for each other. ”
Fourth place: Ms. Zhao, 72 years old
Ms. Zhao and her remarried husband are both retired cadres. They met on a blind date and fell in love with each other. For the first time, Ms. Zhao said: "Actually, there is no special feeling, because we are all adults and are more rational. Of course, there is some embarrassment and shyness, but slowly it comes naturally. ”
In general, the feelings of the elderly when they remarry for the first time vary from person to person, but they are inseparable from each other's love, understanding and cherishment.
Although the physical changes and psychological stress brought about by aging are inevitable, these elderly people have overcome various difficulties and found their own happiness through mutual understanding, support and exploration.
They use real experiences to tell us that life in old age can also be full of love and warmth, which is worth cherishing and pursuing. May more elderly people find their own happiness on the road of remarriage and spend a good time together.