Will an elderly person who remarries feel shy for the first time?The 62-year-old aunt spoke her heart
The old man has lived until now, and after half a century, some things will still feel shy despite his rich life experience, such as the topic of **. Most people are reluctant to discuss this openly, and even couples may feel a little embarrassed. So, for the old man who remarries, what will it feel like to have a round house for the first time?Do you feel shy?Let's listen to what experienced old people have to say.
I am Liu Yue, I am 62 years old this year, and I was born in a remote mountainous village. When I was a child, due to my family's difficulties and the distance from the city, I had to walk every time I went to the city, and it took me half a day. But I've always had a dream that I must leave this mountain when I grow up, because I can only see the wider world when I go out, and I don't want to stay at the bottom of the well all the time.
After hard work, I was successfully admitted to the university, and after graduation, I entered a satisfactory unit. My husband and I met at work, and we work in the same department. From acquaintance to love, and then to becoming a family, this journey is really not easy. There have been a lot of twists and turns in the middle, and I don't want to mention the specific details. But for two people to come together, there must be something unique that attracts each other. My husband has a handsome and chic appearance, and I have no shortage of compliments at work, and my colleagues think that we are a very compatible couple.
When I was younger, my husband and I loved to travel together. My husband is from the city, but he likes to go to the countryside, while I am a native of the mountains and have a special affection for the countryside. Every time I go to a strange place, I always feel like I have returned to my childhood home, and I remember many good memories. I thought I could go hand in hand with my husband to the white head, but fate was unfair to me. I lived a stable life, but when I was 40 years old, my husband died in a car accident.
At that time, my heart was like a knife, why did God treat me like this?We have been married for many years and have never quarreled, and even if there is a conflict, he will take the initiative to resolve it. We have a very strong relationship and plan to travel all over the country together after retirement. However, my husband passed away suddenly, which became a big regret in my life.
Although he is gone, life still has to go on. It took me a long time to come out of this misfortune. At that time, many people persuaded me that I could remarry, especially since I was only in my 40s and could find an ideal partner. However, I only have my husband in my heart, and the children still need me, so I can't ignore them for my own sake.
As a result, I have remained single and am now in my 60s. Thankfully, I was able to raise my children to be independents, and my husband was able to feel at ease in heaven. The only problem that needs to be solved now is my personal life. I used to be okay at work because the 9-to-5 job filled my time. However, feeling empty and lonely at home after retirement, perhaps due to age, fear of being alone.
As time went on, I began to think about finding a wife to spend my old age with. Even though I'm over half a hundred years old, I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone. Although my children would support me, they had their own lifestyles and social circles, and it was difficult for me to fit in. There is little else to do every day other than dancing with my sisters. And when night falls, I feel very lonely and longing for a companion by my side.
It was at this time that I got acquainted with Lao Chen. Lao Chen is a year younger than me, and his wife died of illness a few years ago. He thinks similarly to mine, saying that he didn't think about remarrying until he met me, because he was already in his 60s, and sometimes playing chess with old friends or spending a day when he had free time already made him feel fulfilled. However, this lifestyle did not last long, and at this age, I have to admit that I am really afraid of loneliness. He really wanted someone to be with him and have a chat, and the need was especially strong.
The two of them can come together because they have the same three views, and Lao Chen is also very satisfied with me, and I also have a good impression of him. He was the second man in my life who caught my crush, so I decided to marry him.
It's really good, the two hit it off at first sight, maybe this is fate!At this age, it really makes me feel very happy to be able to meet someone I like, and I am especially grateful to him and Lao Chen for appearing in my life.
Later, we chose an auspicious day and simply invited some relatives and friends to our home, which was a formal declaration that we were together. Although Lao Chen and I have known each other for half a year, the night we got married was the first time we spent a good night together. Considering that I haven't had intimate contact with a man for more than 20 years, the first time with Lao Chen made me feel a little embarrassed, like a fledgling girl. Fortunately, Lao Chen understood me very well and knew that I was shy, so he chatted with me and didn't force me to do anything, and we didn't successfully complete the ceremony until late at night.
This feeling is really a long time ago, and spending a married life with Lao Chen is like returning to the time of youth, full of passion and fantasy. Lao Chen's performance also satisfied me, as the saying goes, the harmony of husband and wife life is very important to the relationship between the two people. Although we are in our 60s, the intimacy between husband and wife has nothing to do with age, as long as they truly love each other and their hearts are full of each other, this is the true meaning of happiness.