Young people are reluctant to return to their families during the New Year, and they are worried about their expenses, but they are homesick
The Spring Festival is approaching, and going home for the New Year has become a knot in the hearts of some young people. Troubled by the estrangement of family and friends, long distances and high costs, some young people are more inclined to choose a free and independent lifestyle.
Xiao Yezi, an HR based in Shanghai, talked about why she was reluctant to go home, mentioning feelings of alienation from relatives and the pressure she faced in her hometown. She shared her experience of working outside the home for a long time, the feeling of alienation from relatives and the pressure she faced in her hometown.
This reminds me of my own experience, where I chose to live a freer life away from home in the face of similar problems. @萧霄则以离异为背景, it expresses the pursuit of a free and happy life.
He shared his family situation, from poverty, the early death of his mother to the struggle to get out of poverty, but after the divorce, he chose to work alone in Zhejiang, away from the shackles of his hometown.
It reminds me of the helplessness in life and the desire for freedom. However, no matter where he is, he never misses his family.
1.@快乐: Pursuing freedom, refusing to be shackled, Jiangxi resigned and lay flat, he downplayed his dependence on his hometown and felt resistant to going home for the New Year, especially in the face of interrogation and restraint by relatives, which made me empathize with him and better understand his choice.
2.@九月: Her motivation for working outside is to save more money for future planning, and plans to quit her customer service sales job and get annual leave bonus by working overtime.
It reminds me of the pressure of working in the city and the determination to fight for a better future. 3.@精灵: The reason why she chose not to go home for the Chinese New Year was not only because it cost a lot of money, but also because of the marriage urging of relatives.
She uses her own experience to express her yearning for freedom, avoiding complicated interpersonal relationships, and being able to spend her time freely according to her own needs. This is in line with my ambivalence about going home for the New Year.
4.@五月的家: He used "urging marriage" as the main reason to express anxiety and avoidance about the future. This has led me to think about family pressures and personal choices, and it has also made me better understand why some young people choose to stay away from home.
In general, young people who choose not to go home for the New Year have their own mental journeys and life troubles behind them. They seek freedom and independence, but they also face social pressures and family expectations.
Perhaps in this choice, everyone is looking for a lifestyle that suits them better.
In this era of freedom and independence, more and more young people are choosing to stay away from home and find their own way of life. They are either fighting for their careers, escaping family pressures, or simply pursuing a peaceful loneliness.
At the same time, the rapid development of technology has provided them with more options, remote work, social networking, so that distance is no longer an obstacle. @小叶子的抉择让我想到了自己, every time you are away from home is a growth.
In the days of wandering in different places, we may be able to find the innermost perseverance and courage to embrace that ideal self. @快乐提到的家乡回家的束缚, perhaps it is the voice of many young people.
Choosing not to go home is not only a longing for loved ones, but also a yearning for a free and independent life. Every young person who is far away from home is defining happiness in their own way.
The story of the resigned layman at May's home made me think deeply about the choices I made in life. In the hustle and bustle of the city, people are no longer limited to the traditional concept of family, and more and more people are beginning to think about what is truly their own happiness.
This generation of young people has chosen to stay away from home, perhaps in order to break free from the shackles of traditional expectations and find a life that is more authentic and in line with their heart's desires. In this free choice, we see not only the pursuit of individual values, but also the diversity of the definition of happiness.
Perhaps, this era is encouraging us to break out of stereotypes and bravely choose a lifestyle that meets our inner needs.
Perhaps, a new generation of young people is reinterpreting the concept of "home" in their own way, the real home, the sustenance of our hearts, the distant peace and tranquility we seek.
So, what do you think home is?