As the saying goes, if you don't respect yourself, heaven and earth are responsible. However, in real life, some women are tired and constantly live for others. I gave up my career for a man, I gave up my dream for a man.
However, such women are often not able to be happy. Because they only see the humiliation in front of them, and forget the poetry and the distance. Therefore, such women always carry a heavy burden forward.
And women who have really seen the world see further and know what they want. They know how to please themselves and are able to please others.
They have their own ultimate goals and principles, and they know three things to say no to a man at the right time. That's because we know that everyone has their own difficulties and hardships, and we have to do our best.
Such a woman lives a transparent and beautiful life.
Only a woman who has seen the world can recognize her heart and know what is most important.
They can refuse everything a man has done for her. She doesn't fall because a man treats her well, and she doesn't give up because a man treats her badly.
Because they know that good men are a scarce resource, and most men do not have this ability. They don't put their own happiness above the pain of others.
Therefore, they will not easily sacrifice everything for a man, or give up their careers and dreams for a man.
Only a woman who doesn't understand the world will blindly give up everything for a man.
A woman who has really seen the world knows how to live transparently, knows what she wants, and has the courage to refuse the kindness of others.
Because they know that a person can only be loved if he knows how to love himself. Only by improving yourself can you attract better people.
Once a woman is impressed with a man, she willingly gives it to him and loves him generously. However, a woman who has really seen the world will not be easily moved by a man's sweet words.
They know that most of men's sweet words are routines and are not sincere. Saying they love you can be an impulsive thing to do. If you take it too seriously, you will lose yourself.
Therefore, a woman who has seen the world knows how to reject a man's sweet words and only believes in her sincerity to the other party. No matter how nice things are said to a man, he will not let himself be fooled.
They insist on what they really think in their hearts and are not easily deceived by men. Because they know what they want, and they know how to pursue and maintain what they want.
Men who speak sweet words like to be said sweetly by women. But a woman who has really seen the world doesn't need a man to prove anything to her, let alone a man to chase her and please her.
These women live transparent and independent lives.
When it comes to love, some women are easily fooled by men, like little children.
They often convey honesty to men, but they don't know how to cherish it. They focus so much on men that they forget about their dreams and future.
Such a woman is easily deceived by men and is easily hurt by men. Because they don't know how to love themselves at all, they only know how to love others.
A woman who has really seen the world knows how to protect herself. She does not allow herself to be hurt by men, nor does she allow herself to fall into love.
They know how to stop losses in time, and will not blindly adapt to others, but can have their own principles and bottom lines.
They also know how to say no when confronted with a man's promise. Because they know that men's promises are just a means of deception, and they have no practical meaning at all.
They know that the most important thing is how to live for themselves and how to love themselves.