At present, more and more people, especially among the younger generation, seem to have formed a consensus that they do not marry and have children, the marriage rate and birth rate have fallen off a cliff, the population has shown negative growth, and the divorce rate has increased year by year.
Many people even marvel that the modern marriage system has lost its meaning in name only.
Indeed, among all living beings, it is rare to see the loving couples who are harmonious with fish and water, and the harmony of Qin Se and Ming, and more of them are the boring coexistence of love and family affection;It is also rare to see the bedside filial son, children and grandchildren around the knees. Inheritance is even more illusory, just ask how many families are still inheriting the family tree, and how many people remember the names of the three generations of their ancestors?
So, what is the meaning of the mutually forbearant husband and wife life and the hardships of having children?Is it just for the sake of legally obtaining the right to mate or the right to take the surname of the child, the answer is obviously no.
I believe that the main and even the only meaning is to "nurture love, enjoy love, and perpetuate love". As we all know, human beings are advanced animals that are different from ordinary animals, not only have the physiological needs of both sexes, but also have the psychological needs of loving and being loved, and the more advanced and civilized the society, the heavier and more demanding the components of psychological needs.
And a healthy family is a love of each other, sharing joys and sorrows, water melts, blood is thicker than water, can perfectly meet the emotional needs of "love and be loved", and make love vibrant, endless, and irreplaceable: is there love in the workplace?No, there is only profit, only competition, and a means of making a living in the workplace;Is there love in society?Perhaps, but it is only general love, more of sympathy, understanding, mutual benefit, or at least lack of uniqueness.
The most beautiful fireworks in the world, may love surround the world.
May the friends who read this article be happy, happy and beautiful in the New Year.