My name is Xiaofang, and I am now a middle-aged man in my forties. I'm going to tell you a true story that happened to me.
I was born into a poor rural family, and life as a child was quite difficult. Since I was a child, I was determined to change my destiny, so at the age of eighteen, I left my hometown and went to work in the city. During my years in the city, I worked hard and lived frugally, and finally saved some money, and later I was admitted to university. After graduating, I joined a foreign company, and my career was rising step by step.
While working in the company, I met my ex-husband. He was a very charismatic man, humorous and talented. We fell in love, got to know each other, and eventually came together. However, the days after marriage were not as happy as I imagined. I worked hard, but he was idle all day, and he secretly squandered the money I earned, and our relationship gradually broke down.
Eventually, we got divorced. I don't have any regrets, after all, this marriage has long been a burden for me. I chose to leave and start my life all over again. When I chose to leave, he didn't stay, he didn't even send me a word, just silently watched me go.
I started a new life, worked hard and improved myself. However, three years later, I overheard the news of my ex-husband, who had become the owner of a large company, and his life was as rich as falling from the sky, while I was still running for life. I was a little discouraged for a while, and a complicated emotion developed in my heart.
At this time, I met a new love, a man who was considerate of me. We started a new relationship, and I thought I would be happy forever, but when I saw my ex-husband again, I realized that I hadn't forgotten him. My inner struggles and pains kept me awake.
One day, I decided to go to my ex-husband and I wanted to ask him why he didn't give me a trace of care when I was at my worst, and after he succeeded, I couldn't help but miss him. However, when I met him, I realized that I was not so easy to let go. He told me that his success was not because he was smart, but because his new girlfriend helped him, including investments, including moral support.
When I heard this, I had mixed feelings. How I used to dislike him, but now I realized that from incomprehension to jealousy, and even guilt, it turned out that I had always loved him deeply. I let out a thousand words and stayed where I was, while he just looked at me silently.
I returned to my new love, but the shadow of my ex-husband always lingered in my heart. I tried to confess to my new love, but I couldn't confide in him. I started to get confused, I started to be cold to my new love, and I started to be depressed all day.
The new love noticed the change in me and asked me what was going on. I was stammered, but eventually told the truth. His face turned pale, and he stood up and left me without saying a word. I panicked and chased after him, but he didn't hesitate to say, "I don't need a woman without a heart." ”
After losing my new love, I realized that I was not only wrong about leaving my ex-husband, but also about not cherishing my new love. It dawned on me that I understood my own ignorance and stubbornness. I decided I was going to fight for it and get back everything I had lost.
So, I went to my ex-husband again. I told him that I knew it was wrong and that I loved him. I don't want his money, I just ask him to forgive me and give me a chance. He was silent for a long time, but finally nodded.
Now, my ex-husband and I are back together. I saw him smile at me again, and I finally felt happy. We actively communicate together and run our own happy life together.
I know I've lost myself in my pursuit of fame and fortune. I also know that some things are lost and they can't be returned. However, I am now willing to let go of everything, start over, be with the people I love, cherish the people in front of me, and live well.
At the end of the story, I want to tell you that sometimes, we always know how to cherish after we have lost. Life is not all about gains and losses, but whether you know how to cherish it. Just like me, I've learned to cherish now. I hope everyone can cherish the happiness they have.