Controversy Project
Do you also have this problem, your child is always asking for you endlessly, and you don't know how to be satisfied? This is the impact of deficit education. This type of education often makes children feel that their parents' love is conditional, and that they can only be recognized if they meet their parents' requirements.
1. This mindset will not only affect children's motivation to learn, but also their self-esteem and self-confidence. Imagine if children always feel that their parents' love is conditional, then they will naturally think that they do not deserve unconditional love, which can lead to a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem.
Second, it can also lead to children being too dependent on their parents and unable to live independently. Because as soon as he leaves his parents or other peers, he always feels psychologically empty, lacks recognition, and lacks motivation. Even in order to be recognized by others, let yourself grow into a pleasing personality.
3. Deficit education can also affect children's motivation to learn. If a child thinks that they can only be recognized by meeting their parents' requirements, then they are likely to lose interest and motivation to learn. Because they believe that learning is not for themselves, but to meet the requirements of their parents. This mindset will not only affect a child's academic performance, but also their future development.
The impact of deficit education is severe. Let's pay attention to this issue together and work together to give children a healthy, stable and loving growth environment!