For finding a partner, there are always people saying, if you have money, as long as you have money, you can find the object casually.
Most of the people who say this kind of thing don't have any money, blame the money for not finding it, and look for a balance.
In fact, when you really have money, you will often find that even if your conditions seem to be okay, it is not easy to find a partner.
In real life, there are many people who have a house and a car, and their income is okay, but they still don't have a partner.
If you can't find a partner, it may have something to do with money, but that is not necessarily an absolute factor, although some people have no money, but they have never lacked a partner, once they break up, they can start the next time immediately, divorced, and they can always remarry quickly.
Some people can't always find a partner, they haven't talked about it once, and some people have read countless people and have a lot of experiences.
And among them, there is never a shortage of people who often have some common characteristics.
It's very thorough, it's pretty much it.
There are always people who regard love as sacred and want to pursue unparalleled love.
I hope that each other is comparable in all aspects, but I also hope that each other is in the same spirit and likes each other, and only if a person is particularly in line with his own standards, he is willing to have a beginning, otherwise he will just forget it, and he is not even willing to get involved.
Such a person, although it doesn't seem to be very demanding, seems to be quite reasonable, but if you really want to be so compatible, it is still rare after all, it is basically difficult to meet such a person, and there is just such a beginning.
Others are different, knowing very well that love and marriage are not so holy, but they are just a part of life, and they also know that they can't want everything, and they have never pursued a small part.
As long as a person looks like an appetite, he feels that he can, as long as a person's conditions are good, he can convince himself to be together, as long as a person is willing to agree, nothing else can be cared about, as long as a person is good to himself, he can be determined.
Because I can think about it openly, I don't think too much about love, so there are many people who meet the standards.
You can always see one and love one, this can't do it and quickly find the next goal, this is divided, there is no future, and soon it can be seamlessly linked, so that there will be no window period at all.
It seems that they all have feelings, but no matter who they are, they are not very deep, but they just meet their own needs.
Be proactive enough to dare to try.
Passive people, unless they have a good opportunity, are always hiding themselves, just staying at home all the time, it is difficult to have any practical breakthroughs, so that there are others around them.
There are a lot of resources in the world, if you want to have more, you have to make efforts, there are a lot of people of the opposite sex, if you want to keep one, you also need to be able to do something.
There is never a shortage of people around me, and they have always understood this and are able to accept it.
I have average conditions, I know that I have to look for it seriously, even if the conditions are not bad, I always know that happiness must be in my own hands.
I don't always want to sit back and enjoy it, I don't always have all kinds of fantasies, but I will be very practical, I will take the initiative to discover the goal, and when I have a goal, I will take the initiative to approach it and strive for a possibility for myself.
If you feel that there is a play, you will be more active, even if you are not very sure at all, you can also be very active, and you will not think so much, so you will not just do nothing, and you have already chosen to retreat.
People who can take the initiative, are not afraid of losing face at all, and forget about the big deal will have a very good harvest.
Maybe you can find an object that is very better than yourself, it's completely high, even if you don't, at least you can find a similar, not worse than yourself, and it's a good match.
Be willing to invest and please the opposite sex.
Too concerned about gains and losses, too calculating, but after sending a few messages, I was worried that the other party had not taken the initiative to find me, but I felt that I had suffered a loss after inviting a cup of milk tea, which was difficult to find.
Even if you can find it for a while, it will only be easily lost, and it will not last long.
It is also necessary to invest in finding a partner, invest first and then talk about returns, rather than making various trade-offs at the beginning, for fear of loss.
But as long as a person can always find a partner, in fact, they all understand a truth, that is, to let themselves have some merits for the other party, either money, or companionship, or to provide enough emotional value to the other party.
Be willing to invest first, pay first, say something nice, and let the other party feel their sincerity.
In general, as long as a person is willing to spend money and knows how to make the other party happy, he will be invincible in finding a partner. Even if you encounter some unreliable and insincere ones, you can always make some good people obsessed.
Many people will like this kind of sincerity very much, sometimes once the other party is happy, they will spend money in turn, and pay more in turn, people are the same, when someone is good to themselves and makes them feel good, they will become very generous and willing to treat each other sincerely.
Not every sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, but if you are really attentive enough, even if it is just pretending, out of wanting to win the other party's goal, the result will not be bad.
Everyone wants to have an object, but an object doesn't fall from the sky.
It's hard to be unwilling to do anything, but always want to get a very good, especially desperate other half.
Most of those plots will only appear in idol dramas.
You have to do something so that someone wants to come and stay.
People who are not short of objects may not have good conditions, but in the matter of feelings, they must be more active, will evaluate their own situation, and will plan to fight for themselves.
It doesn't take a lot of skill, but being able to do it and keep trying it has already outperformed too many people.
Among them, many people really just wait, dream, worship the Buddha, but they don't do anything, but they just pretend that they have done something.
Text: Tan Meng.
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