It is said that Jia Ling has dominated the hot search list every day recently, especially in the first two daysThe new look has reached a new level of beauty. 
As a result, there was such a voice on the Internet:
To be honest I'm really curious :What kind of magical place is Tiger Pounce, and are the people in it living in the last century? 
In fact, we have complained about this topic many times. Do you still remember the Faye Wong stalk before?
Someone posted on Tiger Pounce:"Faye Wong is a second-married woman with a child, no one wants it in our village." Hahahaha, it's a pity that Faye Wong didn't fall into your village! 
and Yang Liping was also persuaded by people to give birth before:At your age, your biggest failure is not having a child. 
feels like she didn't even have a child, Yang Liping really lived in vain. Our East Asian women are miserableNo matter how great your achievements are, you can't escape the judgment of childbirth. It seems that the most important KPI in life is to get married and have a baby. If you don't get married and don't have a baby, that's really a big rebellion. But seriously, like Jia LingTop success has been achieveddo you really need marriage? 
In the past, when I didn't have money and no fame, I didn't talk about it, but now people are famousMarriage is the biggest risk on her life path. In the past few days, I have picked up Jia Ling's experience of becoming famous, and found that her process along the way is full of thisGender discipline. But it wasn't easy for her, and she never fell into this trap. 
In 1982, Jia Ling was born in an ordinary working family in Xiangyang, Hubei Province, and liked to imitate "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar" since she was a child. In today's parlance, it's a talent for music and acting. Later, she was admitted to the ** Drama Academy as she wished, and she was in the dark againchose the most unpopular major - cross talk! 
Now in recent years, cross talk has been "revived" here by Guo Degang, but in the past few years, cross talk is at the moment when the industry is withering, and it is facing the same dilemma as operaI don't know if I have anything to eat after graduation, and everyone is not very optimistic. And Jia Ling was admitted to the first cross talk class of Chinese opera, and she crossed the river by feeling the stones. After she actually entered the school, she realized that the harder part was still to comeBecause she's a woman! There were a total of 40 people in the cross talk class that year, and there were only 7 girls, and they were not very eye-catching. In her own words:"Girls engaging in cross talk feel like entering the wrong bathhouse"., in the cross talk industry, male actors are the main body, women are just foils, and it is too difficult to come out. 
In 2003, Jia Ling participated after graduation"Beijing Cross Talk Sketch Invitational Competition" won the first placeone(At that time, Guo Degang was third.) But even with such results, because she's a womanThere are still not as many performances as the mediocre actors around. After graduation, she was in a state of "North Drift" for a long timeI can't afford to pay the rent of 400 yuan a month. After inquiring again, 6 of the 7 female classmates in the class changed careers, and she was the only one who was still struggling to support herself in the cross talk circle, and the people around her also persuaded herOtherwise, just give up. But she still wanted to hold on. Fortunately, her teacher in Chinese opera is Feng Gong, a well-known "good old man" in the circle, and she has a difficult lifeFeng Gong would occasionally take her to perform with him, she slowly had some opportunities and gradually came into the public eye.
In 2007, Jia Ling's work"Love to fight to win".won the third prize in CCTV's cross talk competition; In 2010, Jia Ling and Bai Kainan appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala"Big Talk".made the two of them famous overnight, and she was only 28 years old this year;
In 2012, Jia Ling and Bai Kainan cooperated"Open Sesame".Appeared on the Spring Festival Gala again, leaving a deep impression.
In the eyes of outsiders, her success is SF Shunshui, and only she knows how difficult it is behind it:"I tried a lot of energy to make the audience happy, but I was not as old as I was oldThe white eight-figure eyebrows are funny. ”
With so many years of experience, Jia Ling realized the limitations of women in the cross talk industry. But instead of casually compromising and hitting the south wall with her rectum, she began to think about itChange the direction a little - try in the fields of sketches, variety shows, and film and television. Now look at this step very smartly. In 2015, on the sketch "Joy Street", Jia Ling and Zhai Ying's new performance "Goddess and Female Man" became popular, which also means Jia Lingthe success of the transition to sketches;
In the same year, Jia Ling participated in Dragon TV's "Happy Comedian", and her works went out of the circle, and then participated in film works such as "The Ferryman" and "Never Expected".Officially entered the film and television industry;
In 2016, Jia Ling was with a few friendsFounded Beijing Big Bowl Entertainment Culture Media***In the comedy industry where actresses are struggling to survive, Jia Ling has become the "big bowl goddess" in the mouth of netizens step by step from a little-known little actor to the capital circle and open up her own business territory. Among themLuck, hard work, talent, brainsIndispensable.
After opening the company, Jia Ling could see herAmbitions are great. At the beginning, she was mainly active in major variety shows and performance stages, and her performance was always therePlaying ugly, the role is always in the teamLaughing stockThe object of the disturbance with others, the actor and her deliberate "firing cp" have never been burdened.
But no matter how the guests on the scene hit her and teased her, she could smile and bear it silently, and sometimes even"Add oil and vinegar", laughing at himself
At that time, everyone's evaluation of her was also indispensableGender gaze.
But only she knows that the stage of small fights is not her main battlefieldOnly a greater voice in the industry can allow her to create freely; Big Bowl Entertainment is not purely a grass stage team established for the Spring Festival Gala and writing sketches, her goal isBuild the company into a unicorn company in the whole industry chain of the comedy industry.
In her company, there isVariety shows, web dramas, TV series, moviesIn the four departments, there are professionals specializing in "comedy research and development, film and television drama production, and there are also experts who specialize in investment and IP research and development. Upstream, shePull investmentConsider putting down roots in the film and television industry. For example, in the early years, she pulled the biggest investment isBeijing Culture. (The former industry giants who produced "Wolf Warrior 2", "I Am Not the God of Medicine" and "The Wandering Earth", but at that time, they also made a fortune by licking blood from the knife edge, and we have picked it up before) It is also with the blessing of Beijing culture that Jia Ling successfully produced a box office miracle"Hello, Li Huanying".
At that time, the capital market valued Big Bowl Entertainment wasMillion. Downstream, Jia Ling has"FUN**" Comedy Screenwriter Support Program, set up a 30 million yuan **, oriented from the source of comedy creationSupport new screenwriters and tap into small comedy companies. At the same time, she also launched the "Comedy Training Class", using variety shows as the carrier to cultivate outstanding comedy talents, and then reverse output back to the whole platform works of the big bowl to complete a closed loop of comedy creation.
Once a good seedling is found, she canHelp these newcomers create artist IPIt is equivalent to recruiting troops for a long time, constantly injecting new creative power, and expanding its business territory and influence. It was also in this process that Zhang Xiaofei, who she signed, jumped from an unknown 18th line to the Golden Rooster Actress and was promoted to the first line, "Hello, Li Huanying" won the box office of 5 billion in one fell swoop, and Jia Ling herself became it"The world's highest-grossing female director".
After that, something happened that made Jia Ling completely in control of the situation, that isThe fall of Beijing culture. Because of the financial situation in a row, and the death of Zheng Shuang's "A Chinese Ghost Story", which led to the loss of money, Beijing Culture was found to have tax and financial problems in 2021The two directors tore and suspended.
Under huge financial pressure, "Beijing Culture" can onlySold 20% of the equity of "Big Bowl Entertainment" to save his life. And Jia Ling, who was full of luck, is in the name of a subsidiary of "Sanya Xiaohong Culture".took over its own equity at a low price and achieved a comprehensive turnover. Now, Big Bowl Entertainment's valuation has been reached20 billion! Some netizens said: If Guo Degang is the "grandfather" of the comedian, then Jia Ling is a comedy"Grandparents".
Finally, let's go back to the topic above: The current Jia Ling is no longer the little actor who passively waited for the choice, but everyone's biggest concern about her is still not herWhether the ability is strong or not, how is the career developing, and how much money the company makes.
But when she was fat, she said that she was too fat to find a partner, and when she was thin, she said that she was thin and hurried to find a partner, why didn't she find a partner when she was 42, she was so busy with work and so old that she couldn't give birth to a baby soon, and she couldn't find a partner.
Object: Object, object.
This is really hard to figure out, it's all 2024, oneWomen with top careers and top wealth still can't escape the birth trial.
It's ridiculous. In the minds of these people, there is only such a little bit of dross left.
It seems that in many people's concepts, even if a woman has a successful career, she is not bad for money, butdoes not have "fertility attributes", it is still the bottom of the chain of contempt in the marriage and love field.
The question is, do people have to enter your marriage market? Isn't it okay if people don't mix in your evaluation system?
Is the only value for women to survive in this world is to get married and have children?
As I said before, one thing I've always hated is that every time I search for a favorite cowgirl name, the following is what comes to mindxxx is not married.
Now Jia Ling also has this treatment, just search for itAsk her if she is married and who her husband is.
But for Jia Ling, she changed her career from cross talk to comedy sketch actor, and then transformed into a director, and she can become the No. 1 female director in China as soon as she makes a move, and she can cause a sensation as soon as she appears, and even affect the industry patternShe has already stepped into a bigger and wider world.
At her level, marriage is a drag on her.
It's really ridiculous to judge her by the same set of standards as before!
I think society is progressing, and people's ideas should also be renewed.
With the cumulative development of economy and materialMany of the functions in marriage are also gradually stripped away.
It's not about who is against getting married, but when you get out of the traditional fertility trial and look at a woman, you can find her true charm.
With the continuous iteration of human civilization, we are no longer living to eat and sleep and pass on our ancestors.
Women, in particular, should break this inertial thinking, don't be confined to the inherent evaluation criteria, and go moreThink about what it means to be alive.
What is a happy life? How to build your own happy life?
Some people thinkThere is moneyIt's happiness, some people thinkThe marriage was consummatedIt's happiness, some people thinkA 9-to-5 jobIt is happiness, and some people thinkChildren and grandchildren are on their kneesIt's happiness.
There may be no standard answer to this thing.
But the scary thing is,You must not judge other people's lives by what you think is the right worldly perception.
The next time I see this kind of remarks, I recommend directGagged their mouths with socks! (By the way, friends, today we have a group of children's socks, 10 pairs are only sold for more than 20 yuan, cheap bowls and super good quality!) If you need it, hurry up and chop it, you can't buy it, you can't buy it, you can't be fooled! ）