There will always be some emotions in life that need you to be counseled regularly, and when you finish counseling, you will find that life is high and cloudy, and your mind is extremely open-minded, and you will be able to better continue to enjoy life.
Emotional counseling, to keep in mind these three sentences, I will enshrine them as a treasure book of my life for the rest of my life and share them with you.
Confucius said: Thirty is standing, forty is not confused. At the age of thirty, you will be able to start a family, and at the age of forty, you will not be confused about the values of the outside world, because you already have your own value system.
At work, we tend to go with the flow, never looking into our own hearts, and we can't figure out what we really want. At this time, you will be torn inward, wandering between different choices and paths, but the result will of course be nothing, because these are not your true choices from the heart. You have to calm down, give yourself a comprehensive review, think about yourself without thinking about others, don't think about the outside world, and think about what you want to do most at the moment. If the dominoes of life collapsed in front of you and you needed to pick up a plank first, which would you choose?
This is the path you choose for yourself. Maybe it's a long road that will take you all your life, or maybe it's a staged path that leads to a flower-filled manor where you get a gift at the end of the road and choose to set off again.
But as long as you choose, then this is the way to go. You have to walk it firmly, this is your call from the heart.
In fact, as long as you choose your own path and keep going firmly, you will find that the disturbances of the outside world are almost non-existent, because you have found what you need in your heart.
But when you haven't found it yet, there's a way to focus on everything around you. From now on, the first thing you encounter is your beginning. When you start doing it, tell yourself, I'm going to do my best to finish you. So, before the work is done, you will find that while you are working, when you are drinking, when you are resting,All your time is haunted by this work, and your brain is giving you new ideas and inspiration every moment, paving the way for your exploration.
You will find that there are fewer distractions around you, and there are fewer distractions from the outside world. Because, you already have what you want to do in your heart.
Human beings are all seeking understanding, but it's hard to find someone who fits perfectly and understands you absolutely. Gradually, you will find that in this world, only you understand yourself best.
When you are in a crowd, you often feel lonely, but when you are alone, you feel extremely full. Loneliness brings you a bigger world. A lot of wonderful inspiration is born in loneliness, which represents your strong spiritual core and the courage to explore yourself and practice yourself.
In the time of enjoying loneliness, you will find that you are gradually reconciled with the world, you drink and sing, and I am happy, how unfortunate is it.