In this world, everyone has their own independent way of thinking and behavior, and everyone has their own background, experience, and values, and these factors shape their personality and behavior. A group of people with the same or similar values make up an environment that is not subject to the will of a single person, and these environments have rules that have been universally accepted. Everyone will be in all kinds of environments, both at work and in life, when the environment is desirable, it will be very comfortable to integrate into such an environment, and when the environment is uncomfortable, people will often want to leave. Many people have trouble because they don't like the environment they are in, but they can't change it or jump out, the reasons vary from person to person, but the root cause must be that they are not strong enough, they are not strong enough to leave freely, and they are not strong enough to change the environment they are in. Instead of being uncomfortable and getting by, it is better to work hard to change yourself and make yourself stronger.
To make yourself strong, the most important thing is three things. First, maintain a positive mindset and the right way of thinking. Being in a dislike environment is definitely uncomfortable, and the mentality will definitely be affected, and it is difficult to seek an effective way to dispel negative emotions when it is difficult to recover, but you can't let the "mentality collapse" become the norm, without a positive attitude, you can't see the other side of things, you can't maintain the right way of thinking, and you will miss the opportunity to make yourself stronger.
Second, develop good habits and behaviors. Good habits can help you develop a more efficient and high-quality way of working, which can lead to better use of time and resources. For example, habits such as going to bed early and waking up early, exercising regularly, and maintaining a healthy diet can be cultivated. Through good habits, you can not only improve your physical fitness, but also enhance your willpower and discipline. This is easier said than done, but if you want to be strong, you have to force yourself to do it day after day, year after year;
Third, persist in study and practice, if the second point is achieved, then persistence in study and practice is not a problem. We must believe that knowledge can change fate, and these knowledge are not necessarily in books, as long as it is worth learning the content that can make you strong, and it must be used in practice after learning, and only after practice can you know whether you have really mastered it. Only by continuous learning and practice can we master the skills and have the strength to choose the environment.
When you can't change the environment, then change yourself and make yourself stronger. The real reconciliation with oneself is not to complain with the dissatisfied self but not to make changes, but to work together with the optimistic and positive self to try to change. *The copyright of the article belongs to the author, part**From the Internet, the author's information has been marked, and some of the author and the first release cannot be identified**, only for peer study and research, if it involves copyright, the background contact will be deleted.