It's the New Year soon.
Have you already returned home and been reunited with your family?
But when you go back, you may find -
The mood from the initial anticipation and excitement.
Within a few days, it fell into embarrassment and boredom.
The interrogation of relatives was so overwhelming that they even looked at each other for two more days with their parents, unable to find anything to say.
Why isn't there a carefree year like when I was a kid?
Why don't we have in-depth conversations with those closest to us?
Instead. and strangers, but you can open the most secret box in your heart.
At the end of the year, these words were finally spoken.
How can you let it cool off-
Talking to strangers: Warm Winter
It was launched in 2017.
Every season is 9+.
The topic once disappeared into the sea of people because it was too fierce.
However, this season, due to the small number of evaluations, the end has not yet been scored.
That's not the attention it deserves.
Every stranger is an entrance to another world.
Put away the impetuousness, listen quietly, the impermanent and ordinary fate, the life that does not seem to resonate, who can say that it has nothing to do with themselves?
The first stranger.
The name is a bit earthy, and ancient Internet users may still have a vague impression -
Shi Jinquan, known as "Jinquan Shaoxia".
Once was oneNetwork planning
His masterpiece is fake news that has caused a sensation across the country.
A newborn child developed eye cancer. The doctor gave a life and death verdict: if you don't have surgery for three months, you will be gone.
After Jinquan Shaoxia heard about it, he enthusiastically gave the child's mother an idea:
You hold the child, walk along the sidewalk in Guangzhou, kneel for an hour, and you will be able to catch fire.
Hey, wait. Aren't we surprised by such street begging, so how can we be popular?
Shi Jinquan came up with a script that was enough to catch horses-
Let this mother kneel.
Let her collect the debt from herself: You said that you would give me 20,000 yuan if you knelt.
And he set himself up: a rich son in Guangzhou.
Then pretended to be an anonymous insider, and called **to** and said that this "rich boy" repented, and he decided to rely on 20,000 yuan!
Boy. Netizens were suddenly angry and said that the rich boy must be fleshed out.
The mother's difficulties have also been seen by more people, and netizens said that we will give the money he is unwilling to give.
It wasn't until the end that Jinquan's identity was **, and he was interviewed and asked why he was so fooling the public and maliciously hyping up.
At every step, Shi Jinquan accurately grasped the law of communication.
When he first carried out the kneeling walk, he arranged for it
Time, ten o'clock in the morning on weekdays.
Location, Tianhe to Guangzhou Avenue Central.
Why is it designed this way?
Because the road is full of TV stations and newspapers, and reporters often avoid rush hour when they go out to collect news, so ten o'clock is just right.
Not only did they get the news to the newspaper.
Even the work and rest time is so thoughtful for the ** teacher.
Twelve years later, when Jinquan Shaoxia shared his way of communication with his eyebrows, Chen Xiaonan asked him again:The most important thing about news is not truth? There was no positive response.
But he shared his own story – he grew up in a single-parent family. The mother is kind-hearted, planting crops as carefully as taking care of a child, and the pigs at home are clean enough to sleep with.
One day, Jinquan couldn't bear his mother to go on like this, so he dropped out of school and went to work in the city. A black-hearted factory took him, with a salary of 600 yuan a month, working for more than ten hours a day, and only twice a week. After working for half a year, Jinquan wanted to resign. But the boss said: Go? That's not a penny. Jinquan was in a hurry, he called the local newspaper and wanted to ** this sweatshop. But as a result, the reply of ** is——No reply. 
Now, when I return to my hometown of Jinquan, I am doing fruit live broadcasts while using my spare time to record the left-behind teenagers, the disabled, and the lonely elderly in the village. He no longer creates such a "plot" that catches horses. In the camera, there is only poverty and misery, the most unadorned look. 
Chen Xiaonan asked, does anyone watch these **?
Jin Quan smiled bitterly. Back then, ** accused him of sensationalism and deceiving the public. Today's netizens praise him as a "dark knight" who fools and speaks for the vulnerable. But whether it's praising or stepping on, Jinquan knows better than anyone else. It's all going to pass. Because there is one thing that is more eternal than praise and disapproval, black and red. People are always more afraid and more repulsive to the real than they imagined. 
At the end of the show, Jin Quan said, but because there is no traffic, I am looking for you to drain the traffic.
Ironically, -Jin Quan didn't know that the show he was on was as ...... as his live broadcastThere is no heat at all. After saying "** life." Let's talk about "being deceived"-Why is a highly educated talent deceived into Myanmar?
All or Nothing" said, because people have two hearts, one is called greed, and the other is called unwillingness. But "Strangers" gives a completely different answer -People's hearts are often the dogs of the times. Zhang Yuan (pseudonym) is a postdoctoral fellow at the Chinese Academy of Sciences. Like Zhang Yixing in "All or Nothing", he got a high-paying job overseas and was rescued after being forced to do fraud in Myanmar for nearly a year. Just like in the movies, he's learned all about the punishment of darkness. 
But such a tragic encounter, but because of the identity of a postdoctor, he was subjected to a lot of cynicism - "The doctor is stupid to read". "It's voluntary, which is deceived".
Zhang Yuan graduated at the outbreak of the epidemic.
Because of intermittent lockdowns, hiring has dropped dramatically. I submitted hundreds of resumes, but there was no response at all. The most laughable thing is the reason for refusal: 32 years old, the age is not appropriate.
Zhang Yuan didn't understand. When I get to the postdoctoral level, I have to get to this age......Zhang Yuan didn't understand it even more. When he first studied for a doctorate, no one told him that the source of students was expanding, but the number of jobs was decreasing.
But Zhang Yuan was not greedy, and even frantically suppressed his unwillingness.
found that no college was willing to ask for himself, so he didn't want to be ambitious, but returned to a small city and found a job of 5,000 yuan. Although the sense of value of his work is very low, and the research funding is pitiful, he does not complain. Actually, it's good to live a lifetime without a quarrel with the world. Until, the girlfriend who was talking about marriage suddenly got breast cancer. Zhang Yuan will never forget it for the rest of his life, on the day he checked out the report, he borrowed all the professors, classmates, and colleagues, and made 50,000 yuan, and said to his girlfriend: I will be responsible for making money in the future, and you don't have to do anything.
Romance, let's go. But behind the romance, there is a wordless bitterness - because just a year ago, Zhang Yuan's parents were hospitalized, and his savings have long been swept away. A lot of people say. I've got a doctorate, I've been in school, and I'm still going to be fooled, which shouldn't be. Of course, Zhang Yuan knew his own dead end. He confessed in front of the camera that he had not been to other cities before going to college. He knew that he was wooden, simple, and couldn't do a lot of work. So he just wants to develop the only skill, reading, to the extreme, in exchange for an ordinary life guarantee.
Oh yes. Guess how much was the high-paying job that deceived Zhang Yuan at the beginning? 15,000 yuan.
Actually, there is nothing absurd about a postdoc being deceived. Because you understand the collapse of the times, you can naturally understand why ordinary people are anxious and dizzy. It's even more absurd than being deceived by a postdoc. It is our refusal to accept such ordinariness, which is actually the truest appearance of this land full of impermanence. Seeing this, you must be tempted to ask—is accepting the truth tantamount to being disappointed in the world and despairing of humanity? Not necessarily. The last episode of "Strangers", a special program. You say, what kind of adult is it, washing up in the morning is like a war, and he is as strong as he can't squeeze out toothpaste or lift his mobile phone?
What kind of father do you say, seeing his son as unfamiliar as a stranger, and talking to his wife like a leader assigning tasks, "Be serious when you should be serious, don't be hippie and smile"? The answer is revealed – an executive who has been diagnosed with ALS. Don't be in a hurry to say it yet, it's miserable.
Because after Cai Lei got sick, the last thing he wanted to hear was comforting and encouraging words.
Many people have heard of this terrible disease in the Ice Bucket Challenge. But more often than not, we don't know anything about it.
Actually, don't say that we, even the medical community, don't know anything about it:
Since the first case of ALS was discovered and described, there has been no major breakthrough in medicine for nearly 200 years. This disease is still the case for humans**Unknown, the target is unclear, there is no drug or method that can stop the progression of the disease, the ** rate is zero, and the average patient dies in 2 to 5 years.If you are an ordinary person with such a disease, even if you are not convinced, you will learn to accept your fate and leave the last time of your life to the person you love the most. But Cai Lei, no. The doctor told him that you must go to bed before ten o'clock every day, and he went out until half past eleven every day before returning home, and when he got home, he had to practice crawling on the ground. It turned out that a "doctor" told him that practicing crawling can delay muscle atrophy. Is there a scientific proof? It doesn't seem to be. Just like the characteristics of this disease, none of them were successfully curedThere is not even a single medicine that can delay the condition. But Cai Lei has to try everything.
He wants to live, and when everyone does not believe, he will believe. After getting sick, Cai Lei was very high-profile, and he was looking for medical advice every day. He has met almost all of China's "ALS experts".
But 95% of them are fake. He joked that if he hadn't had a terminal illness, he wouldn't have known that there were so many ** in China.
The more you seek medical treatment, the more desperate you become.
But the more desperate he became, the more unconvinced Cai Lei felt. Sometimes, you feel like this person has gone mad. I would actually tell my wife that after I die, you must inherit my business, continue to develop medicines, and run for other patients. In the end, there was an accusation: This disease killed your husband, can't you give me revenge? The wife smiled helplessly.
Although Cai Lei has done a great job, with the help of his powerful resources, he launched the Ice Bucket Challenge to persuade investors to pay for the research and development of drugs and build a platform. But seeing Cai Lei's "moral kidnapping" of his wife, Sir still felt unbearable. This may be the eternal contradiction between impermanence and ordinary. Cai Lei knew that he couldn't do it, but he wanted to do it, because he had encountered the greatest impermanence in his life. In order to fight impermanence, he must be extraordinary, even fueled by hatred of the ordinary, in order to burn as much as he can, and what little he has left will eventually fall. And Cai Lei's wife represents all living beings. We witness impermanence, but we still live in the ordinary, and we are not forced out of the power beyond the ordinary by impermanence, so we live as usual. But it's not that we bow to fate. Because fate doesn't always require us to fight so bitterly and hatefully. But it requires us to cherish the present, be curious about the future, and feel the beating of the human heart in every moment. is like what Chen Xiaonan said many years ago when he made "Cold and Warm Life":
In my heart, everyone is a big man. But everyone is a small person in history. That kind of bitter story can attract attention for a period of time, but just read it, and there is no value to keep. We can't just be satisfied with making people cry.We all know that all beings suffer. I also know that the reason why suffering is suffering is because they always release smoke bombs that "people can't decide their fate, but they can change their fate", tricking you into being Sisyphus who pushes stones, but in the end they always push the stones on your head, and then slip away. Knowing the pain is not painful. It is also not realistic to eliminate suffering. So what "Talking to a Stranger" has to do is very simple. It does not shy away from truth, nor does it shy away from despair. It wants to replace false propaganda slogans with vivid personal experience; With a profound observation of the times, smash the chicken soup for the soul of hypocrisy. It just wants to do its job as a journalist — not just a piece of paper. Not language arts. It is to question the world, discover the truth, and return to humanity.