Every time I talk to friends about making friends and recruiting, I want to say that you must not find people who are not filial to their parents and are not grateful, because their values are most likely incorrect, and a small part of them are selfish.
When dealing with people who don't know how to be grateful, you can either go through the motions or avoid them as much as possible, otherwise you will always be hurt by that kind person.
By extension, whether it is recruitment or dating, the first criterion should be values, character, not ability. Because when the values are not right, no matter how you cultivate, no matter how you pay to him, there will be no positive contribution.
Secondly, you must make more positive energy people, positive energy people will make your life spiral, negative energy people will only make your life spiral, you were very happy, but you met a person who was about to live, and you may not feel able to live if you stay with her.
As for everything else, it doesn't matter, values, character, and positive energy are the root and the way. When this is wrong, you lose the whole game! A bent-necked tree can never be straight.
There is a saying that says, although you work hard, everything is left to Tianyi!