I found that everything is a matter of the heart, if a person does not change, no matter how much he asks for it, he can't get it, and the heart changes, and he gets it quickly.
What we have is what our heart already has, and if we change our heart, we can change everything outside.
It was futile to ask for outwards, and to ask inward, it was quickly obtained.
What is outwardly seeking, such as lack of love, always want others to love you, but if your heart lacks love, no matter how much you ask others to love you, others will not love. You think that if others love you, you will not lack it, but in fact it is not, it is you who lack it, so you show no love on the outside. Only by changing one's heart and making oneself not lacking, there will be people outside.
Love. There is no shortage of people who love, there is love, and there is no shortage of money, there is money to spend. In the past, I also wanted someone to love me, but then I was completely disappointed, I knew that no one loved me, I could only love myself, so I loved myself and only did what was good for myself, and as a result, my heart was complete, there was no shortage, I didn't need anyone to love me, but someone to love me. Because others appreciate my confident look.
How do you keep yourself from being short of money? In the past, I was a poor man's mindset, and I wanted to have good things that others had, but I didn't want to work hard. Later, for a moment, I realized that this kind of thinking was wrong, and I heard a sentence that said: If you want to be rich, you must give charity. So I donated a little money every month, a piece of money, and my mentality changed instantly, it turned out that I was not short of money, and even had more. If you don't feel that you are short of money, your heart will not be poor in an instant. If the heart is not poor, the outside will not be poor.
Everything is a matter of the heart, and changing the heart can change everything. It is very difficult to change people's cognition, and it takes a lot of effort to change their minds.