Forty men go on a blind date, what do you ask for?
Colleagues in the newsroom have always wanted to know more"Older single young men"This group, especially female colleagues, is curious about what the boys in the blind date market think.
Since the Spring Festival has not been celebrated for three consecutive years, is this year's marriage rush exploding because of the energy accumulated for three years? Recently, I have heard a lot of incidents of urging marriage during the Chinese New Year, which reminds me of a bizarre work incident that I was involved in this year.
In this article, I will try to ** men's point of view, how they show their strengths in blind dates, and how they screen each other. In the matter of blind date, what do men think?
Love is delicious" stills colleague Xiao Wu said that she has a resource in her hand, and the approximate information is as follows: Qi Xiao (pseudonym), age 40+, height 180+, family company, a lot of relatives, and a hobby is raising beetles.
I was quite happy to respond to the interview request. Reporter Xiao Zhou was sent to interview this person. Xiao Zhou added Qixiao WeChat and made an appointment with him for a ** interview first. However, as soon as Qixiao came up, Xiao Zhou felt a little tricky.
He said he wanted to know what benefits Xiao Zhou would get if he wrote about his interviews. Although this was a headache, Xiao Zhou cautiously replied: "The interview is voluntary" Qixiao quickly ignored the question, and the next hour ** The interview went quite smoothly, Qixiao answered fluently, and was a little surprised when he heard that the reporter was interested in his blind date experience.
During the interview, Xiao Zhou found that Qixiao should be regarded as half an artist, because he studied oil painting in college, and now he takes it as a hobby, often going to museums to sketch exhibits.
Qixiao also has a special hobby of raising beetles,**In it,Xiao Zhou listened to his enthusiastic introduction to beetles,While checking the Internet**,Said a few words of compliments that were not against his will,For example,"Some close-ups of beetles**If you look carefully at the part, you can still see that it is very cute."
Xiao Zhou interviewed Qi Xiao, and Qi Xiao brought a beetle as a meeting gift on a blind date, and the other party was a little frightened. He regretted that there were too few girls who could accept beetles, and they all thought it was a large cockroach.
Xiao Zhou is just a journalist, and for them, everything is material. At the end of the first call, Qixiao said that he spoke more directly. Xiao Zhou judged that Qixiao was a good interview subject, straightforward, expressive, and able to provide details.
A few days later, Qixiao told Xiao Zhou that when he planned to travel to Xiao Zhou's city, Xiao Zhou took this opportunity to ask him to meet and talk, and Qixiao readily agreed, and a face-to-face interview was about to be completed.
The meeting place was at a Starbucks, chosen by Qi Xiao. Qixiao arrived first, asked for a cup of warm water for himself at the bar, and after Xiao Zhou arrived, he went to Heytea next door to buy himself a big cup of hot taro mash milk slam.
Qixiao said that he rarely went to Starbucks before the blind date, and began to meet here frequently on blind dates, and now he wants to vomit when he sees Starbucks. The two ended up occupying the Starbucks bar for hours, and neither contributed a penny to the turnover.
Because of a little cold, Xiao Monday sat down and said sorry, saying sorry, I want to blow my nose. Xiao Zhou saw that Qixiao kept playing with a small iron, making a sound of "buttoning and buttoning" on the bar, judging that he was a little nervous, and did not immediately start asking questions, but greeted him in a thick nasal voice for a while, "I have a bad cold, I have to go to Uniqlo to buy a pair of autumn pants after chatting for a while", and showed him how amazing his small Xunfei voice recorder is.
New copywriting: An older young man shared his blind date experience on a talk show. He mentioned that most men will be relegated from "ordinary and confident" to ordinary and inferior at some age, which is known as a "midlife crisis".
Qixiao started a blind date at the age of 39, although the blind date is not long, but he believes that the blind date position of young men is the most important. He candidly shared his blind date criteria, including being young and beautiful, with good education, but he also said that even if women don't like older men, he doesn't mind because he met a very beautiful 24-year-old girl.
When talking about age and marriage, Qixiao shared his views. He believes that in the long course of life, people will definitely encounter good opportunities, but it would be a pity if they lost that person because of their age.
Qi Xiao said that the ultimate meaning of species is to reproduce, and human beings are no exception. Whether it is raising animals or the relationship between people, we must strive to reproduce and pass it on, because this is an important way to continue life.
Therefore, for the issue of age and marriage, we should seize the opportunity, cherish the people in front of us, and strive to reproduce and pass it on.
When Qi Xiao gave a speech in the stills of "Ode to Joy", his tone was sincere. Xiao Zhou saw the reproduction theory for the first time in real life, and even the other party knew that she was a reporter and would be recorded.
This made her look at the man a few more times. After the interview, Qixiao and Xiao Zhou took the subway together. Out of the mentality of protecting the interviewee, Xiao Zhou told Qixiao that some of the things he said might cause readers to feel disgusted with him personally.
However, Qi Xiao did not feel scared by this, but instead gave Xiao Zhou a reassurance, saying that she could use his real name. When there were not many people in the carriage, Qixiao revealed a news that surprised Xiao Zhou, saying that he wanted the introducer to introduce him to Xiao Zhou as a blind date, but he was afraid that Xiao Zhou would be embarrassed, so he didn't say it explicitly.
Xiao Zhou hurriedly said that they were just doing an interview, not a blind date. However, Xiao Zhou's answer was incredulous, saying that it was possible for them to be together, and he also wanted Xiao Zhou to be a spare tire for him.
Although it was a painful experience for Xiao Zhou, as a woman and a journalist, she also felt a little happy because it was probably the most important message for Qixiao.
The message of this subway conversation may be more important than the interview itself.
I think it's a lot of fun, don't you want to know what some men think when they go on a blind date? Now you know. ”