It seems that if he does not supervise his husband too much, it will be difficult for him to stay at home with his wife for a long time, and he will always want to go out and have fun, even if he is strict with him. On the contrary, it makes the husband feel that his wife does not trust him, is ** him, and restricts his right to freedom. Over time, the husband's family became less and less important, and the eyes that looked at his wife seemed to have no love. This is an extremely dangerous marital state, and what can be done to increase the importance that the husband attaches to the family?
1. Adding freshness to life can bring your husband's heart closer
If you live between husband and wife for a long time, the relationship between the two will slowly fade because of the passage of time, and the lack of passion and freshness in life will make life feel more and more boring, and your husband will want to divorce you. As a wife, if you want to redeem your husband, you need to know that love needs to be kept fresh, what should you do? The following points teach you how to keep it fresh and save your husband.
Make yourself more attractive to your husband. After marriage, a woman must pay attention to her image, dress herself, and don't neglect herself because she takes care of her children and takes care of housework. You also have time to take care of yourself, improve your attractiveness to your husband, and pay attention to your own image and dress, so as to prevent your man from cheating and maintain a certain freshness in your marriage. A woman must keep herself fresh at all times, so that her husband can increase his attractiveness to you.
Create more romantic surprises in life. When your husband comes home from work every day, you can occasionally cook a Western meal for a romantic candlelight dinner together, or occasionally go to a romantic Western restaurant for a Western meal. Every time you buy a new dress or dress, you can show it to your husband as soon as possible, and ask your husband the question, "Honey, what do you think of my new clothes?" Is it good-looking? This will make your husband feel very happy and the relationship between the two will be preserved.
Take a short trip with him. Maybe you don't know how long it's been since your last trip, so you can take a short trip. You can go where you've been on your honeymoon, or where you've always wanted to go but haven't been. In this way, it can remind you of the moment of your newlywed honeymoon, which can warm up your relationship and rekindle the flame of passion.
To relieve the stress of your husband. As a wife, you should understand your husband's pressure and help him relieve it appropriately. As the saying goes, behind a successful man is inseparable from a woman who silently supports him. Therefore, women should silently support their men behind him, encourage him, be his spiritual pillar, relieve pressure for him, give him support and understanding. You can get some small gifts to please him. This will keep your feelings fresh.
Second, it is very important for a woman to maintain her attractiveness after marriage
Mr. Emotional Expert once said that the age of 25 is a turning point in the transformation of the relationship between men and women, before the age of 25, women are very attractive, and there are many competitors for boyfriends, and after the age of 25, men are more and more attractive, women are less and less attractive, men have fewer and fewer competitors, and women have more and more competitors. Therefore, the man maintains the woman before marriage, and the woman stays after marriage, and the more the woman goes back, the more valuable the man is. If your wife can "beat" those competitors with her own efforts, then your relationship can always be harmonious, so what should you do? Let's look down.
Change your appearance. Appearance is always the first element of attraction, and after marriage, the wife neglects to dress up for the sake of the family, and her figure is out of shape and her face is haggard. It is relatively difficult for the husband to keep from visual boredom for a long time. When marriage loses its novelty and your life becomes dull and boring, your husband will look outward for excitement, and cheating is one of the ways. The same is true for most of the "three-year pain" and "seven-year itch". Therefore, when you realize that you are not as attractive as before, from now on, your wife should strengthen her workout, reshape the curves of her body, and regain her confidence and charm.
Elevate yourself within. Housewives are isolated from the outside world to a certain extent and are not sensitive to the perception of news. When your husband tells you about the latest news, you don't know it. When you complain and gossip with your husband, he doesn't think so. If the husband and wife have no common topic and cannot reach a resonance in thought, over time, your relationship will become more and more estranged, resulting in a situation where "she doesn't understand me at all". Therefore, after changing her appearance, the wife should improve her inner self, enrich her inner world, and become a tacit couple who can really talk to each other. As we hope to meet, you will meet some people who understand what you say, and they understand what you say and answer you, and you will be very comfortable and enjoy talking to such people. Why? It's because he's connected to your subconscious.
Change the way you get along. When marriage lacks passion and vitality, people are too lazy to give for each other. If both parties can realize that this will not be beneficial to the relationship, and make changes, then love can always be fresh and vibrant. Changing the way you get along, such as trying things together that you've never done before, complimenting each other, cooking a well-cooked dinner for each other, or camping with your children can strengthen your relationship.
3. How to become a woman with a happy marriage and family
Why do some married women always have a happy and sweet smile on their faces, and they don't feel the feeling of family pressure on her face at all. They can always handle family affairs with ease, and their husbands are also very loving, and there is no yellow-faced woman on their bodies at all, which makes their colleagues and friends envious. What can we do to be a woman who has a happy marriage and family, as if God cares for her?
Raise your love level. When a woman constantly exercises from daily communication and daily activities to improve her love level, she can better understand the man's mind. The core of improving the level of love is to keep you thinking about the details. That is to say, when the other party usually makes certain behaviors and reactions, you can quickly use your own analytical ability to figure out what he wants at this moment. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about how they feel, what you need to do to make the other person feel comfortable. Then, you can react appropriately right away.
For example, as soon as a man enters the house, as soon as he bends down, you immediately take the slippers and put them in front of him, help him pick up the briefcase and put it back in the room, say that you have worked hard after a busy day today, dear, and serve him a glass of warm water. What man doesn't love such a woman, she doesn't need to say anything that she knows what she is thinking, and reacts to them one by one, what reason is there not to be pampered and loved.
A woman should be both homely and socially competent. Taking on the role of a good wife requires homely skills, as well as good social skills. Home skills include understanding men, handling family locks, and understanding the joy of life. It is mainly manifested in: having a good way of communicating and getting along with men. Meet the dignity that men subconsciously chase; Handle household chores and relationships with family members at home; Have your own hobbies, often create some fun in life, etc.
Women should have their own value and not live as an appendage to men. Have your own circle of friends, get along well with others, and be charming. You also need to know how to integrate into his circle of friends, improve with men, identify with him, be led by him, and so on.
When a woman has good family skills and social skills at the same time, her family is very harmonious and warm, and many family conflicts will be avoided. A man marries a woman not to create a conflict, but to resolve it. When you take care of the family well, it greatly relieves him of a lot of pressure, and he loves to go home when he has a warm haven.
It can be perceived from the husband's lack of attention to the family that he is actually dissatisfied with his wife. This dissatisfaction is multifaceted, the wife does not pay attention to dressing up, there is no fun at home with the wife, the wife always complains, etc., all of these factors are not disliked by the husband in his heart, so he does not pay as much attention to the family as before. The most important thing a wife who wants to change the status quo is to increase her attractiveness and insight, as well as add more freshness to her life, so as to create a phenomenon that the husband feels that his wife is very good and that he is very happy in the family, so that he can value the family again.