"Clubbing, getting tattoos, getting drunk, these things seem cool, but it's not difficult at all, you just want to do it whenever you want.
What's really cool should be those that are not easy to do, such as: reading, making money, exercising, going to bed early and getting up early, being filial to your parents, loving others with a burning heart, and using your life's energy to overcome professional fields.
Low-level desires can be obtained by indulgence, and high-level desires can only be achieved by restraint! —People**.
Everyone has the right to choose their own life, you can choose to lie flat or choose to change your life! If you are greedy for a momentary pleasure, you can stop reading the article here, and continue to brush a wave of **, I respect your choice, and getting drunk today is also an attitude towards life.
If you don't want to do nothing all your life, and you don't want your children to be left behind at the starting line no matter how hard they work, then you should take a good look at the following content and think about how you should spend your life!
Human nature: greed, selfishness, vanity, fear, laziness, lust, short-sightedness, lack of thinking, aversion to risk, love to listen to good words, enjoyment, covetousness, stability, dare not accept uncertainty, like to be praised, recognized, affirmed, worshipped......
We humans struggle with our nature all our lives.
A real master, go along with other people's humanity and work against your own humanity!
How to do things according to human nature?
We must conform to the humanity of others and satisfy the human desires of others in order to conquer the hearts of others!
To put it bluntly, if you give others what they like, he will be willing to mix with you.
For the ** of human nature, it has never stopped for thousands of years, animals have nature, people have human nature, only by seeing the human nature behind the behavior, can we understand why we do what we do.
When you come across something delicious, your first instinct is to try it.
When I see that the business is engaged in activities, I think that there is a cheap advantage.
As soon as I was free, I thought about brushing the short ** and chasing the drama!
I don't like complicated things, and my intuition thinks it will bring pain.
These are all at work of human nature, hidden in human genes!
anti-human" and "human".
Masters are all anti-human, and the logic is: "Anti-human nature, in order to become a master".
This society can be divided into two camps, one is the "anti-human camp" and the other is the "conforming to human nature"!
The anti-human camp is able to restrain its desires and insist on doing things that are beneficial to its own growth.
People who conform to human nature must be harvested by people who are anti-human, and there are two kinds of people in the world, one is the one who does the game, and the other is the person in the game. 20% of the gamers and 80% of the insiders, the rule of 28.
The reason why your life is so muddy and your growth rate is stagnant is because you are 80% of human nature, staying in your comfort zone and unwilling to go out. Because anti-humanity is painful, it is in response to the saying that "all the good roads in the world are downhill".
If you follow human nature, you can get short-term pleasure, and if you go against human nature, you can get happiness.
They like to be immersed in short-term pleasure, they don't like to do long-term things, they are addicted to "short ** cool dramas, don't think, blind consumption, don't like sports, and have no management of the body" to enjoy the pleasure of dopamine secretion for a moment.
This group of people generally plays the role of "moonlight people, bowed people, confused groups, and insecure people" in society
People who desire happiness will plan their time reasonably, running, thinking, writing, reading, meditating, etc., which can only be obtained by overcoming the laziness of human nature, and the happiness from these aspects is fulfilling and motivating.
This group of people is on the road to getting better, even if the status quo is not ideal, but one day they will get rid of the status quo, and this state is the common denominator of the accomplished groups in today's society.
Generating value starts with anti-humanity.
Conform to human nature, people will become more and more wasteful, anti-human nature, people will get better and better, anything valuable needs to be obtained against human nature.
To get in shape, you need to exercise every day;
Gold List Title; It requires daily hard reading;
To save the first pot of gold in life, you need to restrain the desire to consume.
Knowledgeable and need to resist "low-level fun" games.
Conform to human nature, and you will have a body that may be blessed and a confused and helpless future.
The more we are in the era of increasing involution, it is becoming more and more difficult to survive, entertainment is supreme, graduate school entrance examinations are hot, money is becoming more and more difficult to earn, and the era of the new crown epidemic is far away.
The more we must be anti-human, restrain the desire to consume, and insist on doing something worthwhile.
Anti-humanity does not necessarily mean to become a master, but to become a master, you must need to be anti-human.
The mindset of getting things done.
Let me tell you a truth: how do people grow, remember, you must choose to do it that is difficult, it is true.
For example: You can think about it, when you come home at night and finish eating, lie in bed and brush **, is it easy or not? Easy, so don't do it.
But after eating, sitting at the desk and reading a book, is it easy or not? It's not easy, so go for it. Because laziness is human nature, it is instinct to do easy things, but it is difficult to exercise real skills when you always do easy things. If you want to achieve great things, you must start to go against instinct and go against the sky.
It's easy to sleep lazy no, easy, so don't do it. Insist on exercising every day, to say goodbye to your fat figure, it's easy no, it's not easy, so you must do it.
For example, in the era of mobile Internet, is it easy to leave a comment on the Internet? Easy, so don't do it. But is it easy to leave a long comment? It's relatively easy and can be done.
When you see a pop-up prompt on WeChat, click on it immediately, is it easy? Easy to do, do not do. If you don't click on the prompt, is it easy or not? It's not easy, so do it.
It's easy to have impulse, but it's hard to have self-control. Therefore, in the age of impulsiveness, you must learn to cherish your voice and attention, which is the premise and necessary condition for success.
You don't have to change the direction of the tide, you don't have to be a big wave, but you can work hard and be a clear stream. If you don't want to be ambitious, set your goal in a down-to-earth manner: to have a skill in your own major, or to have a place in the competitive field, to stand out in your small circle, even if it is just to increase your monthly income by 1000 2000 yuan, your life will improve. At this time, people who look ordinary will not be so ordinary.
Because at the very least, you've done one thing.